How to draw a husband to help around the house

One of the most common reasons for family quarrels, quarrels, omissions and as a result of all this divorce is the husband's refusal to help around the house. As a rule, husbands declare that these are purely women's duties: to maintain order in the house, to create coziness. Men refer to the fact that they are earners, that they earn money. Coming from work, men sit in front of the TV with a newspaper in anticipation of a delicious dinner. Quite a common situation, is not it? But it was the days when women were sitting at home and engaged only in farming and raising children. Women also work, earn money, and in the evenings after a hard day's work, they have to cook dinner and clean up the house. In this rhythm of life, it is simply necessary to involve the husband in helping with the house. And here most women face huge difficulties and resistance from men.
Many women make a mistake already in the first years of married life, without involving the husband to help around the house. These women are trying to be ideal housewives, to save her husband from economic hassle, to manage everything. But there are children, additional chores and the woman stops coping with everything. And the man is already spoiled and refuses to help around the house. While your marriage is young, while love and passion are not cold, it's easier for you to negotiate with your husband. From the very beginning of your married life, make you respect your work and share household responsibilities. Your marriage is an equal union of two loving people. And equality should be manifested not only in making money, but also investing energy and time in your home and life. Talk about who prefers to do household chores. Who knows, maybe your husband has always dreamed of becoming a chef of a large restaurant and it contains culinary talents. Let him show them. Get rid of stereotypes that these are purely female responsibilities.

Constant reproaches and complaints you will not get help from her husband. Only become irritable and nervous. A husband will respond with a refusal to any of your requests, begin to linger after work and try to be less at home, that is, where he is constantly reproached and forced to do something.

Most modern men are spoiled by the upbringing of their mothers. But with the acquired laziness it is possible and it is necessary to struggle. Let your husband not consider a delicious dinner, washed dishes, washed and ironed shirts as a matter of course fact. And educating your sons, remember your problems with your husband, teach and help your child at home from a young age.

The spoiled man will lie in front of the TV without a twinge of conscience, referring to the fact that he is tired, and you will spin like a squirrel in a wheel. Maybe we are to blame for this?

Do not be afraid to be weak. Show that you can not cope without a husband. And let you yourself know how to change a burned light bulb, to hammer a nail. Let your husband do not know about this. Men like to demonstrate their superiority and importance. So use this. Do not try to be an iron lady and an independent, strong woman. Always praise your husband for any help around the house. Do not skimp on the praise, do it as often as possible and as much as possible. Encourage her husband's initiatives, even if he does not wash dishes as you are used to. Any criticism kills the desire to do something next time.

Let the man be a man. Because so often we spoil our husbands. Ask your husband for help and trust him to help you. Such trust to your husband will be returned to you a hundredfold. From now on, you will not need to waste energy and energy in attracting your husband to help around the house.