And all because, as the Aryan classic said, each of us is a good actor. So we try to play our roles in all life spheres, including intimate ones. And very part of the bed in our quarrels are playing on the already predicted scenarios.
Scenario one: "I really wanted something"
You and your loved one could not agree. The conflict has not exhausted itself. As a final argument, you defiantly turn your face to the wall and convincingly pretend that you are supposed to be going to bed. Your faithful, after trampling the bed for a few minutes, lies down next to you and again waits a couple of minutes, bumps your shoulder, justifying it by playing - now let's get to! You keep the defense for a few minutes, and then you give it up, because A smart person should do just that.
In the process, no initiative comes from you, aposle - again turn to the wall. Of course, it's not so demonstrative, but it's quite in a convincing context.
Pros of the script
Whatever you say, but in the kitchen conflict you managed to win the victory and your "opponent" lost, sorry for him.
Disadvantages of the scenario
First of all, you will not get any pleasure from sex in this situation. And here it is asked: "Who are you still trying to say?". And secondly, your favorite person is also not a fool and he sees that all your insults and plots are "sewn with white thread", and the lips that are demonstratively puffed up - the next stage of training. This very time-course can very quickly annoy your loved one.
Scenario two: "Well, get here, my little psycho"
Here the whole initiative comes from the lady. You come to the baptism that the broken plate is already quite enough to show a man's discontent with life, you start languidly at him to cast your views, with a smile and a call to slowly unfasten your robe.
At this point, a man may very sadly react, at the same time very reluctantly, but still in most cases, be taken to this device.
Pros of the script
Virtually all members of the stronger sex greatly appreciate when a woman first makes a step toward reconciliation.
Disadvantages of the scenario
No matter how sad it may sound, but men quickly get used to what they appreciate. And if you constantly show your preparedness for bed protection and work, the whole value of your resourcefulness will drop drastically. No one will argue that the first to go to contact is good, but still you should take into account the cause of the quarrel and the number of misfortunes in your address. And one more thing: rarely any of the representatives of the strong field can boast of resourcefulness. You can not believe it, but even in a moment of violent sex, he can scroll in his head all the words spoken to him during the dusty replica. You think that everything is behind, try to relax and get pleasure, and your faithful meanwhile thinks: "Look at yourself, samataka ...".
Scenario three: "Mysterious tenderness of each other"
At a certain moment, you both stop, stop shouting, take a breath, everyone in the mind counts to ten, then each other smiles and says something like: "We need to quickly make up!". Go to the bedroom ... conclude a truce.
Pros of the script
As a rule, they are obvious. By the way, a sharp break in the quarrel for the job makes it possible for the adrenaline for which, as a matter of fact, so much noise and scream was raised around the sexual reconciliation.
Disadvantages of the scenario
This scenario does not have any disadvantages, because the quarrel was a non-primary topic for you and your affection is sincere and mutual.
Scenario Four: "Aya did not expect this"
Here the first step is he. But exactly how he does it, the question is of secondary importance. And at this moment you make a surprised face - they say, beloved, well, you give, a couple of minutes ago you were ready to kill me, but now you are like a homeless kitten. And no matter how much you are surprised, after a time you will easily breathe and give him the consent hand in return, adding more and more sincerity to the process.
Pros of the script
Very good at comparing with the first script because you do not have to put on a mask a huge favor. Ipermanently growing passion in this case is very visible.
Disadvantages of the scenario
This scenario is not fated to be repeated often. And all because if you, for example, quarrel once in three days, after which the man climbs to a kind of intimate reconciliation, and you are very surprised at this moment, and so it happens not for one year, your lucky will not appreciate the surprise. He will simply laugh at the naves, and then a new scandal is just around the corner.
Scenario five: "Nothing's over yet"
From whom there is an initiative, there is no meaning. But at the height of the process, you start whispering in his ear that he never did this again, or that he bought you a present, you deserve it. And it's all so tiring.
Pros of the script
Probably he will agree to everything. Or just at this moment you will play along. At this moment, men are ready absolutely for anything. So from the last quarrel you come out as a complete winner.
Disadvantages of the scenario
Use your body as an argument in a quarrel - not worthy of high praise. By the way, men always understand this.
Scenario Six: "Did anything happen?"
After an argument you go to the bedroom and watch TV. You are joined by your beloved and you are as if nothing had happened, make love. Avce because you love each other and are used to having sex before going to bed.
Pros of the script
When watching TV or taking a shower, you can calm down.
Disadvantages of the scenario
If the dispute is insignificant - everything is fine, and if serious questions have not been resolved - good sex remains a dream. In this case, this is not reconciliation, but a time-out in a quarrel. And it's not a fact that everything will not happen again in the morning.
Scenario 7: "Make Peace and Do not Fight Again"
Before you go to bed, you negotiate the solutions to the problem that has arisen and deliberately arrange all the points above the "and". A compromise is found and you are both pleased with each other. In all the rest there is a repeat of the third scenario.
Pros of the script
The most optimal option. No matter how sweet the reconciliation is in bed, it is better to solve all the bad things in advance.
Disadvantages of the scenario
They simply do not exist!
To fix
Sadly, we have to realize that whatever kind of love you like, we still quarrel. And all this because of trivialities or inability to find a compromise. Sex after a quarrel is good. At least because it allows us to feel intimacy with each other. But remember that the best scenario of sexual reconciliation is even before the transition to a horizontal position. And its essence is that you must be together! And if you do not get to not quarrel - learn correctly to be reconciled!