With the development of the modern pace of life and the constant shortage of material wealth, many young couples face difficulties, seemingly, established relationships at a distance. Eternal questions torment loving girls and guys - what will happen next with their relationship, feelings? Will there be mutual love, subjected to the trials of time and separation? To ensure that data and other possible issues do not exist, use simple and at the same time effective rules to keep the relationship normal.
Rule number 1. Take everything for granted
Of course, it is not easy, especially at the beginning of separation, to leave everything as it is. But there is a reverse side of the medal. He or she is not at all more at ease in this period than you. He has a non-new stage in life, a new job, acquaintances. You too should not lag behind in development and slowly melt in doubts at home. You also have to force yourself to do the same things every day, before the departure of a loved one. To make it easier, mentally say to yourself that you are the best or the best on the whole planet, and also remember that separation is a temporary phenomenon that will end sooner or later.
Rule number 2. Find an opportunity to talk with your loved one
Despite the fact that the beloved at this stage of life is far from you, find the opportunity to talk more often about your feelings, the emerging emotions in falling snow or other events that worry you during the morning, day, evening and even night. Ask him about new impressions in a new place, with whom he managed to make friends, get acquainted, try not to miss a single minute of free time, for the life is too short to waste your vitality and energy on a constant explanation of relations and who loves whom and who more. Thanks to the rapid development of modern civilization benefits such as the Internet, Skype, ICQ, SMS, e-mail, even just an ordinary mobile phone and many other modern "tricks", the opportunities to contact your loved one are just mass. If you have not yet learned to use all the gifts of IT-technologies, then it will be superfluous to take up for the speedy self-study. This lesson will help you to survive the time of separation faster, and the skills obtained will undoubtedly be useful in any job, because the computerization process becomes global.
Rule number 3. Tell your beloved half the word "We"
In spite of the fact that men are less emotional than females, yet nobody has harmed the feeling of their own need. More often consult your second half, thereby creating arezoloboty and inspiration. After all, it is more pleasant for each person to hear the word "we", than the constant talk about which blouse or receiver you purchased, not consulting, but simply putting it before the fact. You can also plan a joint weekend or a future vacation. The main thing is to let your passion know that you love it and are waiting for it with patience.
Rule number 4. Take up a new hobby
Doing business as usual, do not forget to get better every day, to quickly get distracted from sad thoughts all the same visiting you. To achieve this goal, take up a new hobby or interest. Believe that you can, by gathering all the willpower into a fighting fist, to make yourself better, smarter, prettier with the idea of what or how your half sees you. Which is better - to be a crybaby or a fighter trying to keep a peace of mind and balance? Of course, you have to fight for happiness, therefore, tie a new sweater for your beloved man or go in for fitness, study a foreign language, and preferably two or three at the same time. The more intense your day, the sooner the separation time will pass.
Rule number 5. Show restraint in statements and in every way support a halving
Never reproach in anything your loved one! Just imagine, how would you behave in his or her place? The new situation of someone else's city or country is a great test both for the person who left and for the rest to wait for the person. Think about the positive moments of separation, although there are a few of them, but still try to keep yourself in your hands and in no case to relax and not to limp - put a few qualities that now just as never needs your half. Show restraint in your statements, because breaking the celestial bond is simple, but it's much more difficult to connect it.
Believe me, it will be a little more time, and you will probably laugh at some moments related to separation. And, as they say, it will be better to remember what to remember on retirement or to tell the younger generation, it's better not to allow kakikhshybok to get out of the situation called "parting" by the winner, not the defeated one.