How to make a loved one go shopping with you?

Some women are extremely lucky: the couple without a murmur walk along with them shopping and even take part in shopping actively. Do not envy - better learn to tenderly lure her husband ... After all, many dream of how to get your loved one to go shopping with you.
Many men to drag into the store is almost impossible. The mere word "shopping" makes them allergic. Well, most of us also do not understand how you can watch football or boxing for hours. So is it worth it to subject a loved one to suffering? On the one hand, of course, no, but on the other ...
Before the New Year to buy gifts to all relatives and friends, stock up on party products, and just for all the holidays. And to implement this without the help of a spouse is extremely difficult. Firstly, alone you are not able to get everyone home. And, secondly, if his mother or boss does not like the present, let him also answer!
Set specific objectives
Women are perfectly oriented "on the ground." For example, we go to the store with a purpose - to buy a friend scarf. But, having seen nothing suitable, we can easily change the "direction" and buy a handbag. For the mother-in-law instead of the spirits to buy shoes, and earrings sister "turn" into a tea set. What attracted, then took.

The main thing is that the gift was from the heart.
The man must know exactly why he is going to the store. Phrases "We'll buy something ..." he does not take seriously. And it can be understood. Imagine, you are telling the boss that you will make a "some" report. It's terrible to think what his reaction will be! For men, shopping is not fun, but hard work.
Pre-wander around the shops in solitude to look at, touch, touch, compare, compare. Determined what specifically you need to buy. Make a list and try to stick to it. And only after that you can take your husband with you and confidently lead him to the right regiments.
Excellent helpers in this matter - online shopping. Find on the site what you plan to buy. Show your chosen spouse, consult with him. If you decide to purchase household appliances, then trust the search for her husband: he will compare the advantages and disadvantages of all models, prices, quality and even appearance.
You can order the delivery of goods at home or go to the store. By the way, after preliminary acquaintance with the assortment, a man will much easier to agree to shopping, because, now, he has a specific goal. Moreover, he has already figured out all the nuances, and for men there is nothing worse than to feel like a layman in some matter.

Do not push my boy!
Of course, we also do not particularly like to wander among the crowds of the people. But, on the other hand, snatch at the sale of the last vending copy of someone right from under your nose - what could be better! That's the way you can get your beloved to go shopping with you.
Men in the crowd are lost completely. The noise, the din, the stampede act depressingly on them. Therefore, try to get out of the shops whenever possible, when there are not so many people in them. This is the morning and late evening hours.
If you choose something yourself, you can offer your loved one to wait for you in the car or sit in a cafe.
Strictly limit the time of shopping. If your lucky enough for only an hour - use this time for basic purchases, and you will choose small things yourself, another time. Realizing that it was not very scary and tiring, the next time he will last longer.

You can not do without you ...
Who does your husband feel during shopping? A porter, a walking purse, a dumbass who does not distinguish colors, sizes, models? If so, is it any wonder that he hates shopping trips with all the fibers of his soul?
Convince your husband that you really need his advice: "Without you, dear, I will buy this!"
Fortunately, most of the men are more or less relaxed to go shopping. Some even prefer to shop without their wives - it's much easier and faster. The main thing is that she wrote a detailed list of goods (indicating the amount). Without a "cheat sheet" the husband can return home with one ketchup.
And after he carried without fail heavy packages of food, do not remove all the delicacies in the refrigerator. Indulge your husband with your favorite dishes. And without any moods, let go for the whole evening to the sports bar or play with your friends in bowling. By the way, you will have a wonderful opportunity to revisit all purchases once again. If the spouse receives such "rewards" for shopping, he will ... almost love it!

There are so many temptations ...
For joint shopping to bring pleasure to both of you, you should not force your husband, but tempt you in every possible way. If you have a music lover, be sure to check out the department with CDs - let them fill up their collection with new albums. And perhaps he has long wanted to buy a screwdriver or headphones - it's time to do it. Remember: a man is a big child, who must be carried away by the game. And often ask his advice, even if you yourself are well versed in mobile phones, irons and TVs. It is pleasant for any man to shine with his knowledge, especially with outsiders. Such simple tricks are a real salvation for both of you.