How to make the child a leader in the classroom, how to teach him to think in such a way that other children could see him, saw him as their traveling star? First, it is necessary to let the child know that his opinion is significant, that he is respected even in the family circle. This will give him confidence in his abilities. We do know that insecure personalities do not become leaders.
Secondly, in order to make the leader of the child, one must explain to him himself that it is important to be good, to describe the benefits, but also to warn that responsibility is assigned to him. It is not necessary to be afraid of this word, on the contrary - to accustom it to it at home, charging any small deeds. From an early age, one must accustom oneself to independence. In primary classes, the child should be able to allocate time: what to spend for lessons, rest. Acquired skills the child will transfer to school.
The class leader is always an interesting interlocutor. Therefore parents should teach him to speak correctly, always listen to the end of his thought, even if they guess it before - it will teach the child to express himself. You should also think about the subject of the conversation. We need to make him an interesting conversationalist. To do this, develop your child: go to different concerts, exhibitions, cinema, theater. Naturally, do not pull it there. So that he does not have a feeling of rejection, he must necessarily like the first campaign. To do this, carefully consider whether this topic, the production, the film will be of interest to his age. Be sure to negotiate with him a campaign, ask what particularly impressed him. You can supplement the conversation with interesting information. In primary classes, children absorb all knowledge received from the outside world like a sponge.
A leader child does not have to be an excellent student, but to learn well and strive for the best, because he becomes an example for imitation in the classroom. Grades at school for his peers are an indicator of his intelligence, an indicator for building relationships. Often you can see how children do not like their classmates for some character traits or deeds, but simply because they are trinities. Still, the main thing is that the class leader owns fresh, interesting information (not even pretending to be truthful).
Naturally, the head of the class can be distinguished by an active life position - no event in the school can not do without it. He must also be able to lure the idea of others, and in uncomfortable cases and deftly get out of the situation.
It is also important for children and physical development. There are always some quarrels in which the child is a class leader - he must be able to defend his right to be called the best. Children are more respectful of those who can stand up for themselves and physically, give "change", protect them from attacks from another "gang".
The leader of the class is also respected for being able to achieve the goals set. The child must understand what success is like, how to go with him side by side, hand in hand. At the same time he must keep his word, bring the matter to an end. These qualities are also "cultivated" at home. But it's worth explaining to the child how to behave in case of failure. On the examples of fairy-tale heroes to determine the ways of retreat, to explain that difficulties and failures temper the character, so do not give up. Of course, at some point the leader wants to weep for his vest, but the main thing is how he will present it, because you can turn the poison into honey. A win-win option is to turn the venture into a joke. Yes, a sense of humor for the leader is an irreplaceable quality.
If you want to make a leader out of your child, it's worth thinking about his personality. He must master mastery of any skill: drawing, performing physical exercises, singing, playing, etc. For this it will be useful to take him to circles. Perhaps to understand his inclination, walk through a few circles. Individuality manifests itself in clothes. Of course, she should not attract disapproving comments from teachers, but the leader should look stylish, well-groomed. Comfortable clothes, like adults, help the child to feel more confident.
Of course, a child from childhood should get used to being in the center of attention, not to retire in companies, not to be afraid of the public and public appearances. Even just gathering in the family circle, you need to pay attention to it, respect for his point of view (even if it seems naive and funny to you).
Having felt the taste of power, the child can begin to manipulate his "hangers-on". Teach him to distinguish among them true friends, as well as appreciate the opinions of others. Naturally, confirming the words with your actions - show love, affection, in no case do not humiliate him, do not abuse with strangers, praise for deeds that are truly worthy of praise. Obligatory point is to communicate with the family: the child must trust the family, feel the support and protection, a fount of worldly wisdom coming from your mouth. But do not overdo it - you need to show ways to solve problems only in difficult cases, otherwise it should fill your own "bumps".