How to marry anyone

All your girlfriends are married, and to decisively finish off your destiny sends an unexpected meeting with an ex-girlfriend whom you did not even respect and did not notice at school. All 10 years of school you were completely sure that it can be attributed to the category of small rodents. In general - the mouse is gray. And now this mouse haughtily listens to your stories about the new promising work, slowly twists the golden ring with diamonds on the ring finger and says: "My beloved does not allow me to go to work." Incidentally, you are the only unmarried left of our class. " Known situation? There is only one way out. To marry, and forever shut up mouths with malevolent gossips, and marry anyone. To make this much easier than it seems at first glance. In what place, and how you can meet your future husband - this is a separate topic. We will assume that there is already a young man with whom you spend all your free time. He at you "one more", or already old and well bored friend is at all it is not important. The main thing is that he obviously is not going to go with you to the crown. However, marrying, if you take this advice correctly, he will still have to. So how to marry anyone?

Forget all that you were advised in fashion magazines for women. Or, on the contrary, remember all this, and do the opposite. Do you really want to get married? Then forget the words: modern and hypersexual, independence and feminism, strong-willed and purposeful. Glossy magazines suggest that it is these ladies like men? Remember - this is complete nonsense! Men can be, and like these women, but they marry completely on others. Therefore, to marry yourself to any man, you need to remember other rules.

Carefully analyze what is the real reason that a lover does not want to get married. Sometimes it happens that the reasons are not in you at all. There are a lot of reasons that are very inhibiting men in making such a serious decision as a wedding, so they do not want to marry. Some of them may seem very funny and frivolous to you. But remember, it's only so, it seems. And he, for example, seriously does not want to marry because he is frightened by a bunch of pre-wedding hassles. If the reason is precisely this, then let him know that you will never put this problem on his fragile male shoulders, and you will entrust this matter to your parents.

Many men are very afraid of marrying, because they are terribly frightened by the word "forever". Try to let him know that if something suddenly does not work out, then at any time you can get a divorce, as thousands of couples did before your wedding.

So, as it looms, it is enough to show a little imagination and ingenuity, and consider that the beloved is already married to you. Only, before you get married, seriously think, but is this really what you are trying to achieve? Because freedom is freedom. And the opinion of "gray mice" can be safely spit.

Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site