The shortcomings of lovers are usually indicated by the parents of the lover, but this is often useless.
- Daughter, he's been treated for more than a year from drug addiction. Why do you need him!
- Mom, enough! It's been half a year since he was discharged.
Deficiencies are noticed by friends, but they prefer to remain silent until the wedding, and the lucky lovers themselves will not ask, because they consider their choice ideal. After all, they chose the best candidate, and they do not care what the others think?Most marriages, most often those who do not have the experience of family life, think about life after the wedding, almost like a paradise life that awaits them after marriage.
In their opinion, if they fell in love, this is for life, that such feelings between the spouses who were in the first months of falling in love will last forever. That no one will ever separate them, because their love will overcome all obstacles.
Around a lot of not very happy couples, but they explain this routine and routine situation to themselves by the fact that these people have not married for love to each other, and nothing like this can happen to them.
And now the long-awaited wedding took place! Welcome to the world of real family life!
Changes in a woman's life after a wedding are very tangible!
The world, where a lot of dirty laundry, where socks and shoes are scattered anywhere, where "different things" are missing. A world where it is very easy to hurt not only with a word, but with a glance.
A world where very simply lovers can become inveterate enemies, and the house, after the wedding, turn into a real battlefield.
Praise those who have enough tact and understanding not to fall to the level of such relations.
And yet, even in the most held family, sometimes the thought creeps in, but where did the former love go, where did the former feelings go? Maybe we made the wrong choice, and let the wrong person into our lives? ..
He does not have enough sex, but for her a lot of sex. She is too tired, her head hurts, then her back.
And here are the changes in the life of a woman after the wedding.
He wants a new car, but she does not want a car, but wants a new coat.
She wants to visit her parents, and he hates his mother-in-law. He is going to watch football, and she's a favorite TV show, and I do not want to yield to either side.
As the candle burns out, feelings of intimacy fade away, giving way to habitual behavior. And now, this is no longer two madly enamored, but two completely alien people who think differently and do things differently.
Earlier they united in the sea of love, but now everything changes - the waves of real life take them from each other to different shores.
Now they either succumb to the current and they are mastered by the routine life, or run away and go in search of new partners to try to find happiness with another partner.
Or maybe they will do a lot of work and do hard work to learn how to truly love each other, the changes in the life of a woman after the wedding were minimal:
- when the husband hurries from work to home, because his beloved wife is waiting for him,
- going home he buys flowers to his beloved wife,
- the wife is looking forward to the return of her beloved husband, leading herself to an elegant appearance,
- The wife is preparing a delicious dinner for her husband, and not only on holidays.
To achieve this, it will be necessary to maintain such a position: "We will respect each other's interests"
When your chosen one is sure, in your love for him - he sees the world "in pink", and also tries to love you more, and to be loved for you and the relationship does not change to you.
He achieves better results at work or in business. He aspires to be a support for you and for your family.
If there is no mutual love, and the spouses feel that they are not welcome, they will not only have a family life but will not get along at work either.
And in general when you say that it is harder to get - it is more appreciated!