Perhaps for someone and will be a revelation of the fact that not only women are experiencing about their sexuality. Both sexual partners worry about how to make it so that his or her half is satisfied and satisfied after the joint love affair. And if it's hard to notice a hint of experience in a man, it does not mean that they are not. So, what are the men most afraid of in bed?
Fear, which can be characterized by a single phrase: "What if it does not work out?"
When everything is the first time when both are in a sweet expectancy, a similar question, even briefly, is visited by most men. However, this fear worsens if such a situation has already happened. Who zzahochetsya feel like an inexperienced youth or become an object of ridicule of the woman, especially if this woman cherishes. This same fear can be the reason that the rapidly developing relationship will not either move to the next step.
From such a situation, no one is immune, and if all of the above reminds you of your own relationship, you should prepare yourself, and develop a strategy for your irresolute partner. Firstly, it is not worth "hacking from the shoulder", tearing up all relations and running away from the shy admirer. But "take the bull by the horns" in this situation is not worth it, excessive pressure can only hurt. It is better to think about what caused it to be unresolvable, maybe simple fear, manifested in the form of some share of distrust to your partner. The best way out in this situation can be only time and mutual trepidation. Let your man feel that a weak and fragile woman is next to her, with whom he will forget all his fears.
Fear that he will be compared to other men
Many men are afraid of themselves that a woman will compare it with their ex-men. This fear can be one of the causes of the fear of mismatch. This kind of fear can be inherent in your current boyfriend in principle, and can arise because of a remark that was not given to you by your previous lover. You, skoreevsego, and did not think that the remark that your ex was a complete nihilism, but in bed knew what to do, can be painfully perceived. However, not only women are suspicious.
So, the word has already been said, and how unfortunate it has had its negative effect. What to do? Prepare yourself for the fact that it will be more difficult to restore the peace of your cavalier than to violate it. All that is vamostaetsya, it is diligent and it is desirable not only words, but also actions to prove to the man that he is the best.
Fear of prematurely finishing
Features of the male body are fraught with many mysteries, and it is not uncommon. Maybe, so that a man knows that such a snapshot can happen, and of course, hides everything in every possible way. And it happens that way, that is not a semi-norm, but, as they say, everything happens.
So if you are faced with this, do not immediately draw any conclusions, perhaps your gentleman was simply worried, or his previous mistress was not particularly sensitive, which left a certain imprint. Men are also people, and nothing human is alien to them.
If a man you dear will have to spend some time, so that later your sex life was equally pleasant to both. Try to extend the time of prelude before sex, gradually your man is psychologically relaxed, and your joys will be long and mutually agreeable, because he will think only of you, and not about how not to screw up.
Fear of your sexual partner
It happens that men are simply afraid of their mistresses, it is when a woman is either too active in bed or opposite too passive. The first type of women practically instructs men before, during and after sexual intercourse, what and how it should do. If once it can prove to the man curious, then in the future he simply gets bored of being a puppet, who carries out orders without getting any food from the process.
Overly passive women, repelled by the fact that they are practically not involved in the sexual process. Perhaps this is caused by complexes and excessive modesty, but who would like to invest in the process of strength and soul without receiving any feedback.
What can you advise a woman in this case? Just imagine yourself in the place of your man and think what he is, and what would you in his place. In the first case, try to think not only about yourself, but in the second case, just relax and enjoy the process. In sex, there is no place for the fear and selfishness, here everything should be mutual, but otherwise neither.