Communicatively
So, how to act in such a difficult situation? Firstly, if there is a possibility, be sure to try to meet this person personally. Be prepared for the fact that you can hear a lot of unpleasant things from your side. Do not be angry and offended, because a man dosih you like, and when your loved ones hurt us, such anger is quite understandable and justified.
When you come to the meeting, you should not waste time. Otherwise you will feel sorry for the person, you will begin to doubt and eventually, without telling anything, you will return home, and continue to lie. Therefore, immediately begin the conversation with the fact that you fell out of love, explain everything, ask for forgiveness and leave. Remember that the reaction can be different: from screams "I'll kill you" kneeling and pleading not to leave. Whatever happens, do not change your decision if you know that it was taken deliberately. Your pity will only make it worse for you and him.
Undeclared in correspondence
If there is no possibility to meet, for example, a young man abroad, then try to talk to him via Skype on the phone. Many women find it easier to write about what happened, but not all of them understand each other correctly, they misinterpret the words of Iphraz. Therefore, try to still talk in person. Never need to try to insult a person, make him angry, thinking that it will be easier for him. In addition, besides leaving him alone, you also impose complexities and multiply the offense on the entire female gender. Therefore, you say everything is like. If a person wants to conduct a constructive conversation with you, do not immediately throw the phone after telling him that feelings have passed. Perhaps you need to discuss certain household problems that may now arise. If this is so, then it is better to talk about everything at once, than to make a person call back, tormenting oneself with conversations with you.
If you leave a person who is far away from you, while living in his house - immediately collect things and leave. Especially if you appeared an arc. The fact is that it is not so painful to find out what is unloved, what to hear about the fact that the former lover uses his property, even drives the other men and considers it to be in the order of things. And besides, the proud woman will never allow herself to use the person she left herself. This is too mercenary and dishonest in relation to him and to what was between you earlier. In an extreme case, if the opportunity is provided and this is a necessity, you can all translate into a business relationship, for example, to pay rent. In general, do so that you did not have something owed and the man could not blame you for not just leaving him, but still continue to use his kindness.
If he found out about everything himself
There are situations when you find out that you have stopped loving a guy / or have found yourself another one earlier than you decided to tell him. How to act in this case? Firstly, many girls begin to take defensive positions and blame him for listening to someone, blaming his friends and acquaintances for not getting things done, and so on. Never act in such a way. You are to blame. It's not that love has gone wrong, it can happen to anyone. You are to blame for having deceived him, and he learned about everything from others. Therefore, it's best to just admit your mistake. You do not need to scream that this is only your relationship and no one had the right to meet them. You already have non-relationships. Yes, and think for yourself, if you were in his place or in the place of his friends, could you be silent or not accept information of this kind? Skoreevsego no, because when someone offends a person close to us, we always try to help, not paying attention to how right it is.
Therefore, when such a situation arises, do not stand up for falsehood, lie, and even more so deny. After all, you still need to quit, and by such behavior you will also undermine his trust in friends and make him suffer longer. Therefore, acknowledge your guilt, listen to everything that he will say, even if you feel unpleasant and say goodbye.
Perhaps, an exception can only be made in that situation, when you know that a man is very unbalanced and can do something that is not good for you. In this case, gently warn him that you are not afraid of him, that you admit guilt, but you are not going to live in fear of him and expect revenge from him when he comes back, because you have those who can protect. But to say this you have the right only in that case, when he really behaves inadequately, and you know that man is really ready for actions that can cause you physical and psychological harm. Otherwise, it's better to just be quiet.
A break with virtual love
And the last option, which is worth talking about, is the break of relations, which were only virtual. It happens that we get acquainted in social networks with people, communicate with them and we think that we fall in love with them. In turn, the interlocutor also shows feelings to us. However, time passes and it becomes clear that virtual love is an illusion that we create, and then it dissolves itself. If this happened to you, then just explain to the person that you are interested in communicating with him, but you do not have deeper feelings. Remember that the statuses in contact with the ismailies with hearts do not really mean anything. You really are not necessary to this person and you do not need to suffer from guilt.
If a man reacts to your explanations inadequately, threatens and offends - safely send him to the black list. It will be like a teenager or someone who clearly has psychological problems. With such people it is better not to contact at all, otherwise this is fraught with unfavorable consequences for you.
In any case, if you decide to break off relations by a person from a distance, be honest with him. After all, regardless of whether he is far from you or close, the guy has the full right to know the truth and learn to live on without you. Therefore, never spend time and better confess yourself, so as not to turn everything into a farce and not to give meaningless hopes.