Traditional society views adultery as a negative, discrediting phenomenon. However, the huge number of divorces of married couples, existing today, pushes to a deeper understanding of the causes and characteristics of committing treason.
Modern man is involved in a wide variety of social relations. Memoria connections, he also builds effective communications with friends, friends, and colleagues in work collectives.
The current concept of success forces people to emphasize life priorities in work processes and achievements, which involuntarily causes the emergence of close relations between employees - and this closeness can be caused both by the need for sexual relaxation and stress relief, and by a lack of warmth and emotional communication. Unfortunately, treachery and mass media are popularized, presenting an adulter as something inevitable for each family, and also defining it as the only source of romance in a married life.
The monotonous activity that limits the possibilities of self-realization can lead to a psychological conflict - the desire to distract, relax the worker transfers to a colleague nearby. Moreover, it is quite possible that in other conditions more saturated with events and emotions, the intention to enter into a closer relationship with such a person would not have arisen.
Here, for example, as tells about his betrayal K., a former employee of the bank: "I was very bored at work - it's a pity that so much time is wasted. Aon worked in the next department, and seemed nice. When my husband found out about my treason, there was a huge scandal, and I had to resign. I sometimes meet my former lover on the street, and I am amazed how I could like him. "
Restraint, courtesy and affability, a neat and elegant appearance, often contrasting with the same qualities of a spouse, estimated in domestic and domestic conditions, determine the attractiveness of colleagues as something undeniable.
That is why, despite the numerous advice of psychologists who do not recommend creating situations in the workplace that are questionable for reputation, communication at work is still very common. This is connected with the inability for individuals to control their own emotions and drives - the nature of human sexuality is such that for some it does not even leave a choice. Such easily excitable persons justify adultery with the inability to restrain themselves at the sight of a sexually attractive object, which is nearby for a long time.
Here is what he says about Adultery N., an employee of a large company: "I am changing my wife-the women in our office are too provocative. I am sure that they deliberately pick out provocative outfits, and behave in a way that I understand - they will not be repaid. "
However, according to some experts, such discharges are useful for mental health and even in some way cementing lost courageous relationships with the help of the feelings of a spouse who changes his wife. Of course, only the person himself has the right to decide whether it is possible to build a strong brute on such a manipulative basis.
And yet one fact remains indisputable - according to numerous studies and surveys, the adultery is most often allowed by those who are dissatisfied with married life and want change. But it should be remembered that a little betrayal with a colleague will bring you the impressions that you are dreaming about. Rather, you are waiting for a sense of shame, a desire to sink through the ground at the sight of a "lover" and numerous gossip behind your back.
Think - do you need this for a few days or moments of dubious pleasure?