If you were somewhere wrong, did something wrong, or offended your girlfriend with some sloppy word, then you should definitely apologize. Because she can think that you do not care, so her soul is very bitter now.
Let's talk about the reasons.
Before you ask forgiveness from your girlfriend, you first need to understand why she was offended. The reason that the conflict broke out can be absolutely anything. The most unpleasant thing is when she pouted at you, and you have no idea what caused her bad mood, and why she stubbornly does not want to talk to you. Even worse, if your attempts to find out the cause of her so terrible mood, she does not answer anything, or stubbornly insists that everything is normal.
If a girl can talk to you, though with difficulty, it will be necessary to draw out every word from her, this is already a third of success on the way to resolving the conflict. Gently, not pressing, in any case, without using rude words and expressions, do it from her, what have you done that, why is she in a bad mood.
If the girl stubbornly keeps silent or rolls a fit after each of your attempts to find out what's wrong, then leave her alone - now it's useless to talk with her, because she chokes in her emotions. Try again a little later, when she calms down.
So, you have learned by hook or by crook why she offended you, and now you are thinking how to ask forgiveness from your beloved girl. First, analyze the information received for adequacy. After all, sometimes the reasons for quarrels are childish and funny, or just stupid. When analyzing, take into account the fact that you look at certain things in different ways, the same thing can be of different value and significance for you. What may seem to you to be a mere trifle may be a global catastrophe for her and vice versa.
Consider two options: you understand what she is talking about, or the reason for her insult is incomprehensible to you.
You finally understand, because of what your beloved is pouting at you. Now think: is it really your fault? Or did somebody just skilfully put the blame on you? But if you yourself are aware of your guilt, it's better to acknowledge it and apologize. If you start denying, shifting the blame on it, then you are likely to lose your girlfriend.
If the cause of the grievance is still incomprehensible ... well. You should speak in both languages you understand.
Now the main thing - how to ask forgiveness of the girl? There are a lot of cases, it all depends on how much you hurt her, how much a monstrous trick he made. Of course, for some minor misconduct you do not have to throw yourself on your knees and beg for mercy for tears. And in general it is necessary to behave as hard as possible, not to limp and not to squeak. Because many female characters often use the fact that a man spreads before her after every misdemeanor.
If you have done something more or less serious, you can make amends in several ways. But initially it is worth seriously talking to her, to explain why you did so, and not otherwise. Agree with the partner before the emergence of a conflict, that in any case, no matter is not resolved silently, that you must necessarily talk. Because if each of you does not fully understand the position of the other, then the quarrel will not be resolved. Everyone will stand on their own. In general, it is good to get into the habit of listening, hearing and accepting the opinion of your partner in order to find a compromise. And yet about the ways how one can ask forgiveness from a girl:
1 way. Give her her favorite flowers or a sweet toy. The method is worn out, but nevertheless he will certainly soften the anger of his beloved girl. If the flowers given to you flew in your face, it means that you have sinned in earnest, or your girlfriend is too impulsive and likes to roll up loud and effective hysterics.
2 way. Do everything as she wants. For example, it annoys her that you prefer to go out with friends on football, than spend an evening with her. So spend with her a great evening, make a romantic dinner or just go somewhere! She will understand that it's dear to you that football is not the most important thing in your life, and you can sacrifice it for her.
3 way. Write to her under the windows, how you love her, how beautiful and wonderful she is! It will be very pleasant for her, just like a nice note with warm words left on the table. It would seem - what a trifle, a scrap of paper with your scribbles! But for her it is very important. This is a magnificent manifestation of your love for her.
4 way. Do something that you never did before. Of course, this something should be something good. For example, cook yourself a dinner, or clean the apartment, so she was happy when she comes home from work tired. You can also offer her a massage - you will relax her, and also deliver an unprecedented pleasure. In your strong male hands, the girl will melt like a chocolate and forgive you everything in the world.
But remember that you do not need to apologize when you do not understand and do not see your guilt. Because of this, relations can simply deteriorate, because one day you will be tired of being eternally guilty. Therefore, the beloved should know the measure in his caprices and accusations. If she is fundamentally wrong, but accuses you of everything, then without unnecessary nerves, without shouting, explain how you see the whole situation. And ask her to analyze everything you said, and to conclude whether she is right in her offense? But in no case do not get angry. So you will stop the progress of reconciliation at all. And this means that you can lose each other. Therefore, if it is dear to you, hold on to the last. Be firm and resolute, take the arrangement of all points above the "i" in your strong hands. You can be sure when it's over, she'll be very grateful to you for clarifying the situation. Because a man is a mind, and a woman is a feeling. Sometimes feelings are a little riotous, but the mind can always put them in place.