But if you understand that you want to return this person, in spite of anything, there is a basic rule - to act. If you sit, folded your arms and grieve, then in itself he will not return! So how do you get the guy back after parting?
First of all, it is necessary to understand and clearly understand who was the initiator of the gap, I emphasize the gap. Not quarrel, after which a break broke out, but who offered to part. If you are, then it is easier, if it is, then more difficult.
Secondly, regardless of who initiated the parting, one must understand and be ready to forgive the guy. After all, if this is not done (and better than both), then any reunion will very soon give a new crack and a new gap.
And finally, the last and most important thing is to return the guy or go back to the guy is possible, if only you both have feelings for each other. If someone does not have them, then all attempts are doomed to failure, at best it will be a bad farce, not a relationship.
The initiator of parting is you.
If you were the initiator, then everything is quite simple. So, he still loves you and appreciates, and if so, he will forgive your small weaknesses and periodic mood changes. We must try to establish relations again. To do this, sometimes just enough to call and ask to return, or at least offer to meet and talk.
If a person really loves you, it will be enough just to explain himself and perhaps apologize for his mistakes so that you will be together again. It's very important to say everything sincerely, so that your beloved really believes that you repent. Of course, you can not take all the blame for parting on yourself, because as practice shows, this in life simply does not happen. The guy must also realize his mistakes. If you summarize, then you must take the first step, as a sign that you do not want to part, but you must meet each other.
The initiator of parting is him.
In this case, everything is somewhat more complicated, because when he first offers a break, he should, in theory, be the first to offer a reunion. But sometimes, in order for the guy to suggest reconciliation (all this fucking male pride and overestimated self-esteem), it takes years, but you can not wait. Therefore, you again have to take the first step, but this time it should be thinner and more delicate. First of all, you need to establish normal friendly relations with him, call him somewhere, but not so that you would be together, and in the company. A picnic, a club, a concert, a trip - all this is quite suitable. Do not constantly think about how to return a guy after parting, try to unwind. It is also important when meeting with him to look at all 100, but do not make him explicit suggestions. Remember your tactic is half-glory. The guy himself must understand how he feels bad without you and wants to return. I think when you get to the condition you need, you will understand, the main thing is not to rush things very much. So to say to give it is necessary to give to the guy "помомится".
So, when the dish is ready, you need to proceed to the last stage of the operation, an individual meeting. Here you can add romanticism, that would be the moment felt. Here again, the main thing is not to overdo it, do not try to hang all the dogs on the guy, the guy should apologize, but you also have to go to him for a meeting. Then maybe you will be able to return it.
But as I said above, the main question is whether you need these new relationships yourself, because you can return the old guy, but it's still it will be another person and other relationships.