From an overabundance of negative emotions, you can make a huge number of mistakes and chop firewood. The first thing that comes to mind is a person who is going through betrayal - breaking the relationship.
Consider the reasons for the treason, and try to figure out how to wean from the betrayal of his partner.
Passed love. Psychologists say that the departed love is the main reason why partners commit treason. In this situation, it is best to talk honestly with a partner, find out what is happening between you and decide what you will do next. But, as a rule, such unions are doomed to break.
Problems between partners . The appearance of problems in relationships often leads to treason. If the partner changes, this does not mean that he has feelings for you. Treason, on his part, is a unique way to solve your problems. For example, the spouse feels that you have moved away from him, stopped paying attention to him. He sees one way out - to pay attention to his employee. Strangely enough, but in such cases, treason is often the factor that brings the couple together and re-bonds the relationship.
Internal problems with the partner . The problems can be quite diverse.
For example, unwillingness to a serious relationship. When a partner feels that the relationship is moving to a new, more serious level, fear and inner uncertainty awaken in him. At the same time, treason does not bring him any pleasure, but, on the contrary, only torment.
Insecurity in itself, too, pushes people to commit treason. Changing sexual partners and changing a loved one, the partner thereby tries to increase his own self-esteem.
Entrenched opinion. "A man must have a wife in addition to his wife, have a mistress" or "if a woman has a head, then she must have a lover." When a person lives and acts by relying on public opinion, it also speaks of a feeling of insecurity in himself.
The reasons why a partner is solved for treason can be different. But, how to disaccustom to change and maintain a relationship?
The very first reaction to betrayal is the desire to break off relations. But, if you still love each other, you need to look for ways to avoid negative consequences.
If the betrayal, nevertheless occurred, the psychologists advise to wait some time, when the emotions are settled, and you can soberly look at the situation. Understand that both partners suffer from betrayal. Need a conversation, but if you yourself do not solve the problem, then contact a professional.
To disaccustom change a partner, remember that men need sex and satisfaction. He will not be full of borscht and pelmeni.
Be interested in what your partner likes. If he calls you for fishing, then do not refuse. Joint leisure is very close. Do not impose your own habits on people. Men tend to protect their personal space when someone encroaches on the sacred.
Watch your appearance. A beautiful woman - causes a man's desire and interest.
Do not become a wife - a saw. It is very important for a man to realize that his home is his fortress. When he returns home, he does not want to be abused. On the contrary, a man will rush to a woman if she always meets him with a smile and joy.
And, lastly, to discourage change or avoid treason at all, dear ladies, be proud and admire your men!