And here we are day by day sitting in chats and social networks in the hope of meeting the one with whom you can share your feelings. And now, it seems, you found it (at least, you think so at this stage), day after day, you watch when he appears online and wait, and suddenly a miracle will happen and he will write to you himself. But believe me, miracles are very rare. Therefore, do not wait for "the sea of the weather" and start to act itself. Just write him first. Let's think together how to start a conversation with a guy on the Internet?
To begin with, you must clearly put in front of yourself the fact that you want from the object you have chosen. Without this, you can not act clearly, guided only by the fact that you like it. Sympathy is different. For example, he may like you only as a friend, in this case, the tactics of the fight are completely different. The main thing is not to confuse the feeling of friendly sympathy with a sense of attraction to the guy, otherwise there may be misunderstandings between you that are unlikely to positively influence your further communication. So, how to start a conversation with a guy on the Internet? Remember any first communication, whether it is virtual or in real life, should be based on one clearly constructed plan: establishing a contact, telling about yourself, in other words "presentation itself," and, directly, communication itself in the form of a dialogue with conclusions about the future fate of your relationship (for example, meeting in real life).
The second step you need to establish contact is to gather information about this guy. Prostudiruy from "A to Z" of his questionnaires and photo albums on social networks (VKontakte, Classmates, FaceBook, different chats where he sits), see if you have common friends who would help you to know him as best as possible. On photographs, pay attention to how he spends his free time, what establishments he visits, whether he is active himself. This will help you to learn as much as possible about his interest, hobbies, favorite music, films, etc. By the way, it may happen that you have some tastes in something, and this is already a plus, and knowing as much as possible about it will be much easier for you to establish contact with him. And by the way, fill out your questionnaires more precisely, that would be a guy also had an idea about who he communicates with. Go over your electronic photo albums, lay out your best photographs, preferably in different angles and different places where you've been, that he would see that you are an active gay person. Personal photos should be clear, where your face is clearly and clearly visible. If you have beautiful eyes, hair, sponges, emphasize this in your pictures.
The very beginning of the communication with the standard: "hello! How are you?". By the way, one more "plus" is the fact that guys, as a rule, are much more likely to talk to girls, so start your conversation with an unconventional phrase, absolutely, not worth it. Well, if you, of course, want everything at once, then write to him something like "Hello! how do you look at that to get acquainted with a sweet and yet lonely girl! "Or, for example," hello, and you could not tell ... ", and then your fantasy. His answer will tell you how to behave with him further.
And here is your first contact took place. Do not miss the fact that having started communication with this person, you, perhaps, for yourself somewhere in the depths of the soul will be disappointed, expecting something completely different. But do not forget that ideal people do not exist, so do not give up right away. Perhaps in real life he is not at all like that. But no matter how it was, in any situation, do not coerce compulsorily without any hints, be yourself, in no case do not deceive him, in either, answer all the questions as is (do not start dialogue with deception, because sooner or later it will become a reality). Show him your interest, how you like to communicate with him, how interesting it is. Tell something interesting about yourself, your hobbies, friends (a story from their or your life), create your image in his head. Of course, it's not worth talking about yourself, what he needs to know, he will ask himself. Try to answer all his questions without leaving an answer, and do not hesitate to ask him what interests you. And do not forget to leave at least some information for the meeting in real life. Try to joke, for example, throw off a couple of anecdotes or funny links. I think at this stage you will already have a more detailed view of each other. And you will understand what kind of person is sitting on the other side of the monitor. And then your knowledge about him will come to your aid, which you subtracted from his questionnaires. To support the conversation, we suggested discussing a film, a book (all within the framework of his interests), if you have a common sympathy, it will not be superfluous for him to hint at this. Try to ask his opinion more, you can even argue about something in jest. The installation of the contact and the first impression at this stage have been completed. Do not bend the stick in communication, one day a lot of information, it's too much. Do not forget that any communication should be finished (in the good sense of the word), thank you, for the communication and hints, as it would be nice to continue this in the future.
In a couple of days, as you progress your conversation, you can exchange phone numbers. And in the end, if he has not already done so, gently invited him to meet in real life. I think by that time you will already understand how well you fit together. And do not forget the fact that appearance is a deceptive thing, so do not lead once again to a beautiful picture.