So, what is the best way to do it and when can you kiss a guy for the first time? Well, first, you need to monitor his behavior and reactions. If you like a young man, he will kiss you . Likely. Maybe it's amazing, but even now there are young people who can be shy and do not hurry to take the first step. With this guy, sometimes you need to take the initiative into your own hands. But hurry, of course, is not worth it. First, let's define: he went with you on a date or do you just notice that he does not care? If he did invite you, then do not rush things. Perhaps he will need a couple of meetings to understand how he treats you. There are such detailed people who do not go to any steps until they decide that they are going to have a serious relationship with the girl. So do not rush it. If you understand that such indecisiveness irritates you too much, then think about whether it is worth starting such a relationship. You should understand that, most likely, a young man will think about this in a similar way every action he takes towards you. And if you already understand that all this does not fit your principles and habits, then it is worth immediately explaining to the young man that nothing will turn out, so as not to give him meaningless and empty hopes. If you still want to be with him, then try to hint gently about your behavior, flirt with him. Still, men, as you know, they are not iron and if you can properly show yourself, the guy will not be able to resist the kiss.
The main thing is, do not act vulgar and do not bend the stick. In general, on the first date, you can not and do not kiss. It all depends on how much you are interested in each other, how comfortable. Life principles and moral principles also play an important role. For all people, they are different, which is why everyone also happens in different ways.
If the guy just shows interest to you, but clearly hesitates to come up and invite on a date, then you can try to show initiative yourself. Maybe he just does not believe in what a girl like you might like. In this case, you must prove to him that this is not so. Of course, it's up to you to decide if you should kiss him right away, or you can get by with words. Your behavior should completely depend on and correspond to the situation in which you are. Remember: there is not one single right solution for everyone. Therefore, it is better to act on the circumstances. The main thing is that your kiss does not look like a hysterical gesture or mockery. After all, there are times when after a kiss, seeing that they are looking at her, the girl simply disappears or says that it was all a joke. This behavior brings pain and misunderstanding, so it is absolutely unacceptable. Before you decide to kiss a guy, think carefully about whether you really want to be with him and not change your decision. Yes, a kiss is inherently innocent, but it's from him that it all begins. Therefore, if a kiss for you is not just a kiss, but the beginning of a relationship, do not treat it lightly, first do it, and then regret your act.
Another question that may excite the girl: is it worth kissing a guy, if you're not sure about his feelings? Here everything, of course, is even more complicated. The fact is that young people do not always understand and accept our feelings. That's why, it can happen that a guy just laughs or disgraced people. Therefore, before you take such a step, you need to more or less objectively evaluate the young person and think about how he will react if he does not like you. And the reaction will be in any case. Simply if a young man treats you kindly, he will try to just explain to you that your relationship can only be friendly and this kiss will be best forgotten and pretended that nothing happened. Of course, this is painful and unpleasant, but in this case, no one will offend you and not humiliate you. Worse, when a young man angrily repels a girl or mocks her publicly. In that case, you will be ashamed not only before him and before yourself. In addition, there will be a sense of personal shame, which is very difficult to overcome. So think about whether you are ready to sacrifice, in case of failure. Always remember that in a state of falling in love, we tend to idealize young people and see only the best in them.
In fact, the real picture, often, does not look so rosy. Our sighing object may not be as kind and sweet as it seems from the outside. That is why, before you take radical steps, you need to try, no matter how hard, to discard emotions and even think a little rationally. Should I honestly answer myself to such questions: do I have a real chance with him? Does he feel any sympathy for me? Is this guy for me at all? Sometimes, loving the forbidden fruit, we think only of what it is treasured and forbidden, completely forgetting about the realities of life. That is why, before deciding to act by yourself, do you want a real relationship with him, in case this young man accepts your feelings.
A kiss is both very simple and very serious. In some situations, it does not mean anything, and in some cases it solves almost everything. That's why, if you feel that the kiss will be a serious step, think carefully before making a decision. And most importantly - listen to yourself. No one will ever be as good an adviser as your own mind, intuition, and, of course, the heart - only they will definitely tell you when you can kiss the guy for the first time ..