If all the time you want sex: temperament or nymphomania?

In ancient Greece, there was a legend about super-sexual forest nymphs. Lustful beauties lured the travelers into the thickets, and there ... There was a real sexual feast with the traveler himself in the title role. The fagots did it to him that he could not come to his senses for a long time! This adventure changed the poor fellow - finally getting home, he was no longer able to have fun with an ordinary woman. The historian Herodotus, describing this phenomenon, lamented: "Whoever tasted the love of the nymph, he will not be able to forget her affection ever." It is believed that it was these forest sluts who taught people in various poses, and also introduced the delights of oral and anal sex. This legend also became the reason that excessive sexual desire in women began to be called nymphomania. Although, unlike the beautiful myth, this deviation (deviation from the norm) is not very attractive. But first things first. Riot of the uterus
It is commonly believed that a nymphomaniac is a joy for any man. Still: she is passionate, inventive in the bedroom and wants sex always. What more could you want? Only need to distinguish ladies with increased libido and nymphomaniacs. Because if the first have a high temperament, then the second - deeply unhappy women, who can not satisfy themselves with love caresses. Because of the pathological obsession of sexual desire, nymphomania in antiquity was also defined as the riot of the uterus. Such a young lady is so dependent on sex that she agrees to have sex with any partner in any situation. She can not get enough and constantly in search of a vivid orgasm. But whatever detente, it does not bring her satisfaction, and the flesh constantly demands "the continuation of the banquet." The "stop" button of the nymphomaniac does not work, which, of course, leads to a lot of problems. And the word "fidelity" is also not from her vocabulary. But it is not necessary to be frightened, since there are not many women with nymphomania - about 3%.

20 orgasms per night!
Nymphomania against the background of only exceptionally high libido is rare. The causes of the disorder can be both mental and physical ailments. These are diseases of the central nervous system, manifestation of one of the phases of manic-depressive psychosis, organic brain damage, endocrine pathology, gynecological problems. Nevertheless, the most common cause of nymphomania is the manifestation of neuroses. Often, the reason lies in the emotional dissatisfaction that a woman tries to compensate for by sexual activity. But in this way it is not drowned out, with each sexual partner (or sexual act) she feels even more alone. Specialists distinguish four types of nymphomania. Congenital is manifested at a very young age: a girl early starts to have sex, often changes partners. The best example is Nabokov's Lolita. Acquired - arises as a result of some other disease. Climacteric - increased uncontrolled desire appears due to hormonal adjustment in the body of a woman. And the last type - imaginary nymphomania (mental deviation, in which the young lady tries to assert herself due to sex).

Nymphomania can develop in two ways: a woman wants to get as many orgasms or as many partners as possible. The possibilities of these divas are amazing - some can experience 20-25 orgasms per night! The time of orgasm can also be very long - up to one hour or more. There is a case where one Australian woman was married 13 times, while her spouses either died of exhaustion, or divorced from it because of fear to leave this world too soon.

Passion or disease?
How to determine whether a nymphomaniac is before you or a woman with a bright sexual temperament? It is not difficult to do this. Nymphomaniacs are characterized by constant sexual dissatisfaction, the unceasing search for new partners, erotic fantasies and casual connections. Because of the constant feeling of intimate hunger, the young lady jumps from one bed to the other in search of someone who can finally drown him, but all attempts lead only to his strengthening.

There are 3 indicators on which experts define a nymphomaniac: sex is necessary to her constantly (sometimes even 12-15 conversions a day is not enough for her), she enters into sexual relations despite the appearance of the partner, neither at his age nor at the social position, and sometimes even sex does not play an important role, to all the rest it does not remain completely satisfied never.

If you are passionate, but these three points are not characteristic for you - you are the owner of increased libido, but without pathologies! Hypersexual women are about 15%. Such young girls ripen early - menstruation starts at 10-11 years. Early they begin and their sex life. Everyone knows that the most passionate men are of short stature, slightly overweight, swarthy and with increased vegetation on the body. Temperamental ladies also have external features. Usually it is a woman of medium or short height, with a slightly full waist and wide hips, which constantly struggle with vegetation on the hands and feet. How far is this image from the standard of beauty - a tall slender blonde!

Purpose: to reduce libido
If it seems to you that your erotic desire goes beyond the limits of the norm, and you see yourself in the description of patients with nymphomania, then the consultation of a specialist - psychotherapist or sexologist - does not hurt. Curing nymphomania is not easy, but you can. First of all, of course, it is necessary to know what is the reason for its appearance. For the normalization of the state, various means are used in the course, the purpose of which is to lower the level of the libido. This drug and drugs, and a strict diet, excluding all products-aphrodisiacs (chocolate, spicy dishes, nuts, seafood, alcohol). To relax obsessive thoughts about sex, you must fill out your daily schedule to the fullest. In other words, to channel sexual energy in a different direction. Good physical activity helps - classes in the gym, running in the morning. If there is an imaginary nymphomania, then you can not do without the help of a psychotherapist. He will help find the causes of the disorder and how to deal with them.

Famous nymphomaniacs
History carefully preserves the names of famous lovers of intimate entertainment. Some of them had to pay for their addiction to their lives.

Messalina
Caesar's wife was so fond of sex that she slept with all her approximate husband. This it was not enough, and the loving beauty was amused with clients in a brothel, posing as a mess. The name of the queen became a household name, and in medicine even the term "complex of Messalina" arose, it became a synonym for nymphomania.

Mata Hari
Passionate Margaret Zelle could not remain a quiet officer's wife. However, the presence of her husband did not prevent her openly change him. Mata Hari skillfully used men for her own purposes - some paid large sums for the nights of love, others told military secrets. The ending of her life, as well as the life of Messalina, was predictable - both of the libertines were executed.

Catherine the Great
Official statistics claim that the Empress had "only" 23 lover. This, of course, apart from hobbies for one night, as well as numerous orgies. With her favorites, Catherine lived for several years, and paid farewell to their titles and money. They say that all her life she tried to find true love.