There are several steps that help to consolidate their endeavors to those who have decided to change their lives, so that these changes last longer than a day or two.
First, reflect on the reasons why you want to change your life. What does not suit you in the current state of things? What will improve, what changes will occur? Write it down on paper. Think about the possible unpleasant consequences of the changes. Will they be or not? If so, how can their impact be minimized? Think and decide as precisely as possible exactly what exactly and when you want to do in order to start a new life. It would be a good idea to draw up a plan of action and to think whether any training is necessary, any conditions for the implementation of this plan.
Actions will help to determine the answers to the following questions. What is the purpose of my life? What in life do I value most, what are my priorities? How do I want to be in a few years, what do I want to achieve? What is necessary to achieve these goals? What obstacles can become on the way, with what obstacles will I encounter? How can these obstacles be overcome?
You will get a kind of essay that will help you to determine your life priorities and value system, as well as make a more or less specific plan. And a person who has a plan, rather than blurred ideas, is much more likely to achieve the desired and not to lose the intended path. And if the person does fail, the action plan will help him to quickly return to the right path. Think about the possibility that one day it will be difficult for you to follow this chosen plan. What are you going to do then? Think again, do you really want to change your life, or is it best to leave everything in its place? Think about the good changes in life that you had before. Due to what, by what actions did you reach them? Past experience will provide an opportunity to understand the current issue. If you have just started to change your life, think and write down what improvements have already occurred?
If suddenly there is a desire to quit everything, think about the reasons why you started all this, read your entries. Think about what goals you will achieve, if you continue on, imagine how good it will be for you. If some problems from the past keep you and you go back, try to stay on your right path, read the plan, motivate yourself, think about the good. Most often after the first difficulty, people abandon their plans, realizing that everything is more complicated than it seemed at first. It is not right. Think about what you have already achieved. Stop straying from the chosen goal and return to your planned path. Remember that your strength, uniqueness and wisdom are in you! Learn to use this to change your life.
If you want change, then try to let go of the past, forgive old grievances, say goodbye to the complexes. Try to become brighter, more optimistic, think positively, launch a program of your own change and transformation. If necessary, repeat yourself affirmations. For example, if you feel insecure about yourself, repeat: "I am confident in myself!" And so on by analogy. Focus your attention on your merits, believe in yourself, thereby programming yourself for success. But this, of course, does not happen in an instant, this should be worked on, especially if we start working on ourselves globally and practically from scratch, that is, almost completely changing itself.
If you look for analogues to your changes, then in an example you can bring a repair in the apartment. First you throw out trash and trash, tear off wallpaper and so on. So you have to clear yourself of garbage, trash and dust, making room for a wonderful "overhaul". By the way, and the order in the apartment is really nice to bring. If you want to change the life, you can make changes to the interior: throw out any old stuff, rearrange furniture, glue the wallpaper, make a cosmetic repair or a major one, as you please.
It's also good to change the wardrobe, especially if you have not updated it for a long time. Buy yourself a few updates, change perfume, makeup, you can also change your hair. If you can afford it, collect all your old clothes and give it to charity, and completely renew your wardrobe. You can even think about a new style and image, try new combinations and combinations. Buy yourself a new shoe, scarf, bag, accessories or anything else. The main thing - change and do not be afraid to experiment!
Try changing your habits or adjusting them. Do you drink coffee only in the morning? Try to switch to juice, tea, cocoa, etc .. Used to walk and ride on the same route? Try to change it. Try to go in for sports, walk more often, just walk on the street.
Think about what you dreamed of doing for a long time, but there was no time, no desire. Maybe you have long wanted to enroll in a dance, a hairdresser's course or learn Italian? Take action. Find a hobby, diversify your life, add to it an element of spontaneity. Read good books, learn new things, communicate with good people, make new acquaintances. You can try to change the situation, go somewhere for a while, if possible. Try to make as many changes as possible for the better, otherwise ordinary things will pull you back, into the old and habitual state of things.
How to start life from scratch? Believe in yourself and in your forces, change not only externally, but also internally, change your worldview, the perception of things, move to the goals set and be happy!