What happens if a man raised his hand on a woman, and most importantly why? First, you need to distinguish a slight slap in order to get the woman out of hysteria and a real blow. Therefore, do not go away from the man who was just trying to stop your hysterics and in no case need to justify the guy, looking at the mirror in the mirror under the eyes.
Women are beaten by weak and spineless guys who, in this way, simply assert themselves. Often, such a man will never enter into a fight with another guy. He realizes that he simply will not stand up before a representative of his gender. But, such a woman is beaten by a woman with pleasure, and, at the same time, they say that it is she who is to blame.
What are the reasons for these guys? The first is, of course, jealousy. Such men are jealous of everyone and everything. They constantly check the phone of their girl, read all the messages, control and accuse of all mortal sins. If the girl just fleetingly looked another young man, whom she had never seen in her life, for this guy is already an excellent occasion for jealousy. He can blame the lady for being, in fact, her lover and his look was some kind of secret code and password. And, after that, a blow is often followed. The man will explain his action by punishing his beloved for his fault.
In fact, such situations indicate that the guy has certain mental disorders and a tendency to sadism. In fact, it seems to them that they really love. Perhaps this is love, but very strange and perverted. These guys see the girl is not an equivalent partner, and her property, which must fulfill all orders and resort to the first call. A girl can not have girlfriends, and even more so, friends. These guys are jealous of her all in a row and everywhere see treason. Often, they force or skill achieve that the woman, in the end, absolutely no friends. In addition, this behavior is also due to the fact that in the case when the girl does not remain anyone. It automatically becomes even weaker and can not ask for protection.
By the way, it is worth noting that this behavior does not begin with the beginning of relations. The first year and a half, the guy behaves just perfect. Everyone is surprised at how he loves and values his one and only. Such men call ten times a day, take care of, they ask everything. Of course, the ladies like this madly. But, eventually, all questions and care turn into ordinary paranoia. The man is too used to the girl and positions her as her own thing. This leads to the fact that he does everything to completely belong to him and always stayed close. By the way, almost all the guys in this category are constantly changing their girls. They explain their behavior in different ways or do not explain at all, but they do not completely admit their guilt. Therefore, if you met such a young man, immediately after the first time he raised his hand to you, immediately leave him. Perhaps it will seem to you that he will change or you simply can not live without him, believe me, over time, you will dream of letting go of you, and this will become extremely difficult. In any case, parting with such a young man is very painful and long. Often, he begins to follow the girl, beg to return, maybe even roll up tantrums with tears. This affects many women - and they return, making a terrible mistake. The man understands that she can not leave him and then allows himself to do whatever he likes. Therefore, you need to do everything to not let him get you full control. If the guy hit you at least once, it's worth seriously thinking about parting. Only, assess the situation rationally. Rarely, but there are times when a girl can really bring a man about rabies. The reason for this state are constant hysterics without cause, treason, complete disregard for his opinion. In this case, the guy, of course, is not right, because a man can not beat someone who is weaker, but still, it somehow can be justified. But if, you know perfectly well that nothing is to blame, and a man has hit you very hard, then run away from him, because soon the relations will turn into constant beatings, flights from the steps and attempts to paint the phials with a voice-frequency cream.
The relationship between a man and a woman must be equal and democratic. If a guy raises his hand, he shows in such a way that he is stronger and wants to have power over the girl. And what would he not tell you, how would I myself not then lead (even if he gives flowers and expensive gifts), such relations turn into life in a golden cage, and then, at best, it is golden. At worst, such relationships really become a prison from which it is impossible to escape.
If a man raised his hand on a woman, then the relationship came to the finale. Never need to allow yourself the weakness to stay with those who hurt you. Sacrifice in this case does not lead to anything good. You really turn into a victim that can not see yourself. Why turn your life into a constant run of a driven animal? A normal guy never reaches a pathological paranoia and attempts to drive away his anger and assert himself with the help of a girl who is weaker than him. Therefore, if you are in a situation where a guy keeps you by force and mocks, ask for help from close people and try to do everything to make such a man stay in your past and never again break into your life.