So, your relationship has lasted for so long that you are accustomed to each other and the periods of intimacy have become so ordinary that they have become boring and do not bring those eye-popping sensations that used to be? Then to surprise a man in bed it's time to change! Try on yourself a different role that you previously avoided and was afraid of - the role of a "bad" girl. It often happens that in order to discover new facets of relationships, it is necessary to get used to the role of the devil!
Go on shopping and buy yourself a new underwear - frank, cocky. Touch of cool silk to the naked body can madly get a guy. Pay attention to the color - it should not be gently pink, but something aggressive, black or red. Just imagine how pleasantly surprised your beloved, seeing you are not the usual panties, and lacy seductive underwear.
Use hints and playfulness in speech. Experienced "bad" girls are able to get a guy excited only with the help of several phrases, elegantly playing hints and leading a conversation almost on the edge with "forbidden" topics. To try how effective this is, in a conversation with your partner playfully and with a hint say what excites you most ... coffee (but not energy drinks or tea), and then offered to discuss the most interesting poses ... yoga.
Take off your panties and put them in your pocket, and then, having seized the moment, tell him that you are without linen. Try to whisper passionately these magic words for men at a time when he does not pay attention to you (for example, busy talking with friends). You can add a little imagination, for example: "darling, I'm already all wet." You will immediately see how he smiles and will shift his focus to you and how to stay with you together.
You can try to stick to the guy not only in the usual moments, but also when he does not expect, for example, to start unbuttoning his fly while he is chatting on the phone or is busy with something not particularly important, if only he waited this is the least. This will not only surprise the man, but will also excite, because from the "decent" girl, to whom he is accustomed, it is difficult to expect such bold and sexual actions.
Try it with an erotic dance. Create a romantic atmosphere (semi-darkness, absence of any interference, etc.) and start slowly undressing to the music. From a certain moment the dance can be continued on his lap. But do not let him touch you until you feel that he is already just going crazy with desire - this will make the intimacy simply insanely pleasant and passionate.
Do not forget about the drugs that enhance sexual desire - they include a variety of cosmetics with aphrodisiacs, certain products, erotic massage using aromamasel, etc. There are two things to note here. First, make sure beforehand that the partner does not have any allergies to a particular substance, and secondly, even if he does not suffer from allergies, do not over-enthusiastate with various fragrances and fragrances. If you want to resort to a massage, then it should be done at an average pace - if the tempo is too high, the man will not be able to relax properly and tune into intimacy, but if too slow, he can simply fall asleep. And a little tip - massage can be done not only with the help of hands, use imagination - in the process of kissing your loved one, bite or something like that.
If you want to surprise him in bed, then you can use a variety of sexual accessories and attributes, such as metal handcuffs, lashes and stuff. Here, too, you can advise not to go too far - you want to excite a partner, and not scare him away with a bold experiment.
Try to get as much pleasure as possible - do not stop at anything, safely talk about how you like it more, try everything you just dreamed about, offer to try new positions and ways, talk to him more often about what he wants and what would you like. Cast off false modesty, let your passion lead you. Believe me, your beloved man will be just glad of your looseness and courage, so once again - be bolder! Do not be shy to show yourself and try new things!