Simply humble yourself.
Sometimes the process of separation lasts a very long time, causing unfounded hopes and causing unnecessary suffering. Often the initiator of parting, sympathizing with the abandoned partner, comes with him very cruelly prolonging the procedure for divorce. Do not let this happen to yourself. It is better to survive only a few days, or even weeks, than for several months in a row. Often, some silent grievances can form the feeling of some unfinished business. In this case, you need again - the last - to seriously talk with the ex-lover. It is necessary to try to put a fat point in the relationship during the last conversation. So how to survive the separation from a man?
"Officially" say goodbye
Very often, the offense of a partner who abandoned you can keep us in the prison of our feelings, until you survive the separation from the man. It is always difficult to forgive, and even if it seems to you that you have already forgiven, the grievance may return to you in 5 minutes, 5 days or even months. However, time heals, and every time you forgive everything will be easier. As a rule, the symbolic step of parting helps relieve the separation from the man. You can, for example, just pick up a heavy stone, and then throw it out with your unrelated relationships. Or light a candle and imagine that with your wax your love goes out. Such a very simple thing, like simply tearing all the photos together, also has a good effect. And it's best to burn them on fire or, sorry, wash it off the toilet - it will help to survive the separation. Never need to lose yourself. Often, women sacrifice their own careers for the sake of love relationships, but in fact - it's in vain, because men quickly get used to it.
Do not repeat past mistakes.
Why do we attract people of the same image to ourselves and make the same mistakes in relations with them? In most cases, this depends on the manner of our communication with people. When your manner of communication coincides with the manner of communication of your partner, then, for sure, you will have a warm relationship with him. And if not, then, it is likely that from time to time you will begin to have problems, and you will worry that you do not understand. If you again and again fall in love with the "bad guys" who are similar in their behavior to the twin brothers, so should you be surprised that as a result you break up? Try to scrupulously and carefully analyze past relationships: what did you do wrong, and what was wrong with the partner. Try to change the attitude with men. Do not step on the same rake. A clear example of parents has a very strong effect on the entire personal life of their children.
Be strong.
It is interesting that, as psychologists think, in order to get rid of any bad manners or addictions, be it a divorce or smoking experience, it takes only 21 days! This time is necessary for the brain to completely rebuild its work. You can help your brain to rebuild much quicker, if you do not allow negative thoughts like "I will not see such a man again!" On the contrary, say to yourself more often "Soon I will meet a great man!" Thoughts have an excellent, and even unique quality, materialize, and who knows, maybe your unearthly love is waiting for you around the corner. Well, you can not always worry about parting with a man? You have to be open to every opportunity.