But, it often happens that people confuse love and love (passion, attraction).
Every year, millions of young couples come to the registry office to marry and tie their fates with a ring and seal in their passport.But, some couples come to the idea of getting married because they really love each other. And others ... and others only feel that their feelings for each other are true love. And, as you know, each of these marriages has a logical conclusion: either a long and happy life together, or a divorce.
How to test true love? How to understand and not to protect yourself from error?
In fact, it is very difficult to recognize true love. Further, we will cite several factors that will help you understand this complex but vital question.
To check whether true love or just love is in your heart, answer a series of questions.
Why do you love this man? If you are attracted only by his appearance, sexual attraction, then you can safely say that you do not have love for him. It's just a hobby that will eventually pass. When you love a person in real life, then you love him not for a pretty face or a bewitching body. First of all, you are attracted to it by its internal qualities and characteristics, although there is also a sexual attraction.
Remember how your feeling started. If you think that it was love at first sight, then you hasten to upset. Love at first sight does not happen - it's just a hobby. True love comes slowly, gradually.
Further, the enthusiasm is evidenced by the following: you are constantly experiencing a storm of emotions. You then love, then you hate. True love is characterized by more equal feelings, imbued with care and tenderness.
Since the moment you met this man, have you forgotten all your plans? For you there is only one world - your young man? This is also just enthusiasm. When you love, only your best qualities manifest in you - you want to create and create. Yes, for you there is only one person, your favorite, but at the same time, relationships with parents, brothers and sisters, friends do not deteriorate, but go to a better level.
Tell me, how can I test relationships and feelings? Parting! When parting at once it becomes clear - you love or are just keen. If your feeling is not love, then in time, all your memories of this person will leave your thoughts. Naturally, if you really love, then parting will sharpen all your feelings for the young man. Life without it will not bring joy.
With an ordinary hobby, you often quarrel, then make peace. Perhaps, constant quarrels give you both pleasure. Constant disagreements act as a means to rekindle emotions.
When you love, you really love, between you less and less often there are quarrels and disagreements. Over time, you begin to look for compromises and give in to each other. It is necessary to be able to do this in order to preserve your feelings and relationships.
It is difficult to check true love, but it is possible. Love is an unselfish and bright feeling for another person. True love does not tolerate selfishness.
The best doctor for all problems is time. Therefore, do not drive horses, wait, you yourself will understand what kind of feeling lives in your heart, you will understand whether this is real love or just a hobby that has no future. And, even if you came to conclusions that you do not like each other in real, think a hundred times before you break off the relationship. Suddenly, you are mistaken and you can make the most important mistake in your life.