What if the first love returned?

Heart pounding furiously in the chest, thoughts are confused. It stops breathing and contracts in the chest, the ocean of feelings seems to take you to a distant unreality. On the horizon in your life there was a first love, a man who was once loved. What if the first love returned?

Who among us did not experience this feeling in life, when his legs gave way under his breath, was breathtaking. When I wanted to see, constantly hear and be close to the object of my sighing. Poor appetite, lack of sleep and mood or everything, with accuracy, on the contrary and increased efficiency, the desire of all to embrace and kiss - all this is familiar to everyone.

The feeling of first love is a real personal maturation for a person. From the way a person outlives the first love and will, depends on his personal psychological completion, which, as a rule, does not change throughout life, therefore it is very important to properly and adequately treat your first object of passion. In every living hostel there are prescribed rules, the student knows why he should study, couples understand what is necessary for family happiness. But during the first love of prescribed rules there is no and can not be. A person reveals himself as he is inside, without a mask. But the most surprising is that true love is a rarity. This first love - when you can not stop loving that person from the past. It is remembered either with a smile or with a bright sadness, but to miss it or try to get it back is to doom yourself to unbearable pain.

You can remember your first love throughout your life, and then experience disappointment, when you meet, because like you were in those days will never be. And you can again plunge into this feeling and forget about everything in the world, family, children and enjoy what has not been all these years. And as a result of the family, fates are crumbling and crippled, children are left without parents. After a while the person comes to an epiphany and there is a desire to return to the family.

The same river does not enter twice. It is necessary to understand that the first love is a strong psychological event. Going towards the first love, trying, to return, those not forgotten feelings and emotions and we keep the image of our beloved. And in the end we have a completely different person.

There are several factors of regret for the first love, which help to correctly act in those or other situations, when it finally came on. To begin with, this is not a successful marriage or a relationship that ended very negatively for both parties. Throughout family life, a person probably does not get what he needs. Accordingly, he draws a continuation of the rainbow picture of the first love, in which he lives happily ever after. Further - the person who is inclined to a split of feelings. In the family everything is fine, but suddenly there is an opportunity, and even more so the first love, which is associated with strong feelings, then such a person can not resist. And the last factor is narcissistic inclinations. A man who loves himself and does not allow himself to forget about that time of admiration, when there were so many pleasant and affectionate words from the side of a loved one.

What to do if the first love has returned, what is the right way to do in this situation, what to say to people close to you, so as not to offend anyone in your own words? Try not to succumb to temptation. Try to force them to leave their own life. Let it remain only in your memory and will radiate the light of the best memories. The time spent on love will always thank you, you can not doubt it!