Why does a modern woman walk away from a man

I got a call from my old acquaintance and shared my misfortune: "We have been married with Anyone for 10 years, and yesterday she packed up things and left me. Why? What have I done wrong? I love her". The conversation pushed me to think about why many men become uninteresting to their wives for a while? They are so "bored" by their behavior, that the woman is ready to go wherever her eyes look, just not to be with him. Of course, the first thought that arises when a loved one throws you - she has another! And if not? Why do modern women leave men and husbands? Dear, the representatives of the stronger sex suggest that we consider the most common mistakes in behavior that could lead to the severance of relations.

Alcohol

Perhaps the most common reason for the departure of a modern woman from a man is male drunkenness. If the husband can not, does not want, does not want to give up alcohol dependence in the name of his wife and children, he will most likely lose his wife. The constant use of alcohol leads to the fact that the husband loses his former interests, becomes aggressive, quick-tempered, indifference to life, to his family. The man becomes primitive, he is only interested in another dose of alcoholic beverage, he has friends who have the same interests, do not differ intellectually. So it turns out that on the one hand - more wife's desire, her efforts, the desire to save the family, to return her husband , and on the other - the passion for drinking. As a rule, the last outweighs. A woman lives in constant fear, in a state of nervousness, she is ashamed of her life partner, she is embarrassed by him. All this leads to nervous breakdowns, deep depression, apathy, poor appearance. Suffer children who are deprived, both father and mother, because they are busy solving a complex problem, which is very difficult to cope with. Thus, after endless conversations, persuasions, scandals, blackmail, the woman decides to leave the man, because the forces are no more.

Poboys

To date, women in Russia are in no way protected from domestic violence. It does not matter what caused the first beating, it is important that it is necessary to repeat it. It is absolutely not necessary that a man bears heavy beatings, leaves bruises and stuff. It is possible that the tremors, the throwing of various objects, slaps and so on, becomes the norm of behavior. If a man dissolves his hands drunk, and then does not remember anything (or pretends that he does not remember), this is a sign that in the future he will be able to hit a woman while being sober. "Domestic boxers" do not change in most cases. All promises, persuasions lose their force, if a woman behaves as her husband does not like. So it turns out that the only way out of the situation when there is physical violence in the family is getting a divorce and leaving. This is a step towards salvation. That's why modern women are leaving men.

Treason.

Every third woman in our country, at least once in her life, was crying from what the man had changed her. Meetings with friends, at least one of them will tell you that her husband has changed again, has recently become a frequent situation. If the connection was accidental, then many women, because of the presence of feelings, family, habit, responsibility, forgive her husband. He teases himself that it was just sex, and there was no emotional connection between the husband and the other woman. But even to experience this, it is very difficult, a nervous breakdown, tantrums, bitter tears, resentment, suspicions are secured. Other modern women consider themselves wise, or, indeed, they are, turn a blind eye to the regular infidelities of the husband, for the sake of the family, or because their husband provides and does not interfere in their personal life. But, in this case, it's hard to talk about a real family. In another case, the adultery of the husband becomes permanent, despite all his assurances that it will never happen again. Every time, when learning about a new betrayal, a woman's dignity falls below the baseboard. As a result, tired of lying, betraying, not respect, a modern woman leaves from the man.

Lack of love

After some time after the beginning of a relationship or a joint life, men often begin to perceive the wife as something due, like what will always be next to them. Moreover, many of the stronger sex do not even suspect the existence of such a reason for leaving. They are sure that this is an artificial and frivolous reason. A woman is perceived as a convenient, free appendix to her own life. The wife is a free housekeeper, a nanny, a sex partner, sometimes, and a source of income. When a woman does not feel that she is loved, that she is respected, valued, taken care of, then her self-esteem falls below the plinth, her inferiority complex is curling. All the talk about the fact that she does not have enough attention and warmth, ends with the fact that the man says that he does not betray her, loves, provides, does not beat. What is it that she needs, negligent? At the same time, all the wishes of the wife, her hobbies, aspirations and interests, are completely ignored in favor of the opinion of the man. The desire to show her husband that next to him a real, living woman, a wife can go to treason. She begins to look for warmth and attention on the side, finding it, and, proving herself that there may be other relationships, she leaves her husband.