Every normal parent dreams of the happiness of his child. Often he is making plans for the future of his child. Decides with whom the child should be friends, where to go after school, for whom to marry or marry, forgetting that the child is a person. He knows himself what to do and when to do, parents should simply support the child in his endeavors and goals. If you do not like one of your friends, then you need to explain to the child why you do not like it, and listen to the child's arguments in defense of his friend. Together to analyze the situation, and find a way out of it. A child is not a stupid creature who can not understand without you where it is good, but where it's bad. Children are often wiser and more intelligent than their parents, because their thoughts are still pure, and parents begin to hammer on the personality of the child with their authority.
The adolescent period and its difficulties. If you score a child morally in this period, then he begins to prove his right to exist in all unthinkable ways. Boys often start smoking and drinking during the teenage period, do not come home to spend the night, or stay late on the street so they do not hear the morals of their parents, skip school. Girls snarl, can also skip school, early on they start having sex. Girls are looking for tenderness and love, where it is given, or at that moment it seems that this is love. These children show their "I", if the parents do not come to their senses on time and pay no attention to the child's behavior, then it will be difficult to stop the process of character formation.
In the teenage period of the character of the adolescent, certain difficulties arise, the boys get into serious alterations and may even be behind bars. And girls with the search for love, become mothers at an early age. According to psychologists, daughters under the age of 12 should educate their dads with caress and attention. And sons have to educate their mothers, as well as caress and attention. It is not necessary to punish children, it will lead to nothing good, you just have to have patience during the adolescent period and help the child understand himself not with a belt, but with the help of conversations, properly arranged dialogue. If the parents themselves can not cope with the situation, you need to turn to a psychologist who will always help and tell you how to act correctly in this or that situation.
If your daughter came home and said that she is pregnant and will give birth, do not send her to an abortion. You will break the life of yourself and her, she will remember to you in the future that you did not support her. There is nothing wrong with the birth of a child, and do not think that your daughter will break her life with this. No, she will be a good mom for her baby, and you just help her with this. And believe me, when a grandson or granddaughter is born, you will be the happiest grandmother and grandfather.
Son in no case do not drive, so that he did in his still small life. He should always know that he has a home and a family where he is loved and expected. Whatever it is, it's just a child lost in this vast world of temptations. And the family, the parents for that and are given in this world, to help your child find themselves. You will reap love, and you will gather it in a huge harvest!