And in order to continue it, it is obliged, first of all, to have a strong rear, in the form of a husband. Family, then. Then, she fulfills her immediate functional responsibilities to nature. Well, and further, quietly to itself grows old, simultaneously raising the numerous posterity and the husband. If she is also a responsible citizen, it would be good if she worked for the benefit of the Motherland, preferably not feeling sorry for herself. This was the fate of a woman until quite recently, some even remember this time. Then the woman did not think that it was better to choose love or career.
Then, changes came to our country, which our hearts "craved". Women began to have the right to vote not only in the kitchen, they somehow straightened up, rose. In general, they became visible. And it became clear that they were women, and not just loyal friends and comrades in labor and political activities.
A modern woman is an educated person who knows her own worth. A woman whose priority is not family values, but her own exclusivity, self-sufficiency, material independence, which knows that love is better or career. To achieve the above, some find themselves rich patrons and with their help try to realize their ambitions. Others, and their majority, go their own way, independently to the set goals. And if the first, to solve these tasks, will receive a prestigious education, then the second and most important point will be getting prestigious work and a swift advancement on the career ladder. While girls receive education, they sometimes find time for love. Although here there are obstacles. To subsequently get a good job, this should be taken care of while studying. And how can you combine lectures, seminars, work, some kind of business trips and love?
Especially quick all manage. And some do not even think that it's better to choose. For them, love and career concepts are incompatible. They sacrifice a wonderful feeling in favor of a career and future material prosperity and peace. Although not always a fast career brings that feeling of happiness and completeness, rather than simple, ordinary love. Others, who sacrifice their dreams about a business suit, choose love, family and children.
There is no unequivocal answer to the question that it is better to choose love or career, and will not. Everything depends on the person, on her world view, on the moral foundations, on the degree of maturity, on mobility and willpower. Many women, in modern conditions of life, plan their lives in advance for many years to come. And then there is a place for a career, and for love, and for children. Although in a wild rhythm of life it is very difficult. Other women do not withstand the pressure of feelings and then, the question of love or career, becomes really contradictory, because the decision will be crucial and the whole further life depends on it, they are at a crossroads. It's not just an answer to yourself that it's better to choose: love or career. The correctness of the choice will be to later, after a while, do not regret that this decision was made. After all, a lot becomes on the map.
Of course, the ideal option, when a woman has time all. She has a dizzying career, unearthly love. She does everything all the time. She does not have to choose. This is ideal. And the ideal, unfortunately, is ghostly matter. So we have today a huge mass of so-called business-ladies who once sacrificed love in favor of career growth. Now they are successful, held professionally, but, alas, did not take place as women. Their natural destiny has disappeared somewhere, instincts have hidden. To some, this state of affairs suits, they knew what they were on. And others, maybe carefully concealing, regret that they once passed the most important of human feelings past them, did not let love into their lives. After all, true love, indeed, a huge power, capable of enabling to be realized everywhere, without forcing to make a choice.