By themselves, men do not like to talk about love and do not know how, so it's not surprising that one of the most frequent questions from a woman sounds like: "Do you love me?"
The difference in the ease with which a man and a woman pronounce declarations of love is conditioned not only socially, but also physiologically. In men, in principle, the need for speaking is poorly expressed. Among them, not so many linguistically gifted people, as among women. And although women easily translate thoughts and images into words, they are less among writers and poets only because historically women's writing has not been encouraged. Engaged in three "K" - kitchen, kinder and bed - the woman tried not to go across public opinion and if she wrote, then she wrote on the table. There are many cases in the history of literature when the manuscript for a great writer or scholar of the rule was brought to the mind by his woman, secretary or housekeeper.
The male brain is mostly designed so that the connection between the hemispheres is much weaker than in women. For transmission by a signal between the hemispheres there is a special "jumper" between them, which is called a corpus callosum. In women this jumper is more massive, has more developed nervous pathways. That's why a woman can constantly chirp about what she sees and feels. It is more difficult for a man to do this. For him, the situation from the category of "I feel something, but how to say or express it in words, I do not know" - is quite typical. So, to talk about love is complex and ornate, most of them do not know how because of physiological limitations in the work of the brain.
The speech capacity of a person usually depends on the type of dominance of the cerebral hemispheres. Women often dominate the left hemisphere, which is responsible for the ability to speak. Men are better oriented in space, they understand mathematics and physics, they can build complex spatial architectural models in their minds. All this is due to the domination of the right hemisphere. It is estimated that a woman wants to express 7,000 words a day. In men, the daily norm of speaking is 2000 words. If they have to talk more, they fall into stress and panic. Women, on the contrary, become nervous and irritable if their need to talk is not realized. Usually, psychologists recommend that women do not bother her husband in vain, and spend pairs of unspent desires in talking with female friends. Nowadays, various blogs and communities also contribute to this.
So all the same, what should he do to confess his love? First, be patient. If your loved one is not Cicero in terms of oratorical skill, give him the opportunity to articulate feelings by the words he finds for each situation. Secondly, if you are directly burned with impatience, wait for the moment when the most enchanting sex will happen in your relationship. In men, the brain zones responsible for love are not found at all. So when he says "I love", at this time activated the brain zones responsible for sex. Women have two different areas of the brain for this, and fairly strong neural connections are laid between them. And experiments in the field of brain research have shown that many women have a brain zone that is responsible for the desire for sex, is not activated until the zone of love is activated. A woman first falls in love, then begins to really want a man. A man can for years live with a woman with whom he has great sex, and he does not always even want to experience a feeling of love. And if you put pressure on him and ask him every day whether he likes you, he will most likely say the words of love at the time of the testosterone explosion. That is, this is the short time span between the moment when he begins to want you, and the moment when this desire has already resulted in an erection.
It turns out that there is one answer to the question of what to do to make him admit to love, but he is rather cynical from the point of view of the woman. You need to seduce a man, warm him up to a point where he is almost ready for sex, and then provoke him to confession in love. This feature of the male perception of love is perfectly able to use women dinamschitsy. You've certainly met in your life at least one lady who flaunts the unlucky admirer to the incredible desire for sex, flirts with him, flirts. And as it gets to the point, she goes back on track. But a man is ready to crumble in praises, confessions and gifts to such a lady, not noticing that everyone around her is considered her usual bitch.
So what turns out that men do not want to admit love? Of course, all this is not so. The difficulties described above show why it is more difficult for them than women to talk about their feelings. But this does not mean that they do not talk about them. Just a woman should not get upset if she can not get him to confess his love. You need to focus on your female intuition, and if she says that in fact he loves you, it does not matter what he says in words.