To live under one roof with such a man is not any easier than with a pathological jealous man, who every time you linger somewhere, arranges a scandal with all that follows from him. By the way, according to statistics, approximately, most divorce happens because of hidden jealousy and women's misunderstanding of the situation. Therefore, to avoid trouble, it is necessary, first of all, to figure out when a man is jealous and with the help of this to find out whether your boyfriend is jealous of you or he does not see any reasons for this.
Causes of a burst of male jealousy
First of all, you have to figure out yourself whether you give out a drive for jealousy. We offer you the most common reasons that cause jealousy in men:
Infringement of male pride. Here, the first thing that comes to mind is that most of the stronger sexes are afraid of being thrown out for the sake of some other man. Jealous of this type tend to be constantly waiting for negative news and every day they try to find on the woman any evidence or evidence of her betrayal.
All male owners or my hands do not touch. A man is an owner who, as a rule, does not want to share the attention of his woman with another man. Just for this reason, if you notice your aggressor's manifestation of aggression towards other men, your interlocutors, immediately stop the point even on a very pleasant conversation and turn your attention to your choice. So you will manage to cool his ardor and avoid conflict.
The opinion of the crowd is the law. And the third common cause, which causes jealousy in men - is the male fear of rumors, gossip of the chinabolists. In this case, the man himself is able to start violently finding out the relationship with the goal of educating a woman and believing that he is right.
How to understand when a man is filled from the inside with a feeling of jealousy ?
By the way, not all members of the stronger sex tend to be so openly open, because there are individuals who are very secretive and show their jealousy in a slightly different form. The most striking forms of manifestation of hidden male jealousy, as a rule, are two. The essence of the first is that your good man often starts to pester you with suggestive questions and show a negative attitude toward your late returns home from work, he starts to annoy your meetings with his girlfriends, etc. At such a time, it's almost impossible to make mistakes, your man will vampire! The second form of jealousy is the offended behavior of a man. Here, the chevalier behaves like a child: playing in silence, mozhetotkazyvatsya from food and even for a while to leave the house. In this case, it is very difficult to foresee the consequences of such behavior, therefore, it is necessary to understand in time when your faithful is jealous and take action, identifying the cause.
By what signs, that you are jealous
To understand about jealousy from the side of a loved one is very easy, drawing attention to the usual early inconspicuous details and objects from the everyday life of everyday life. For example, pay attention to how often your faithful likes to read in secret from you or under any other explicit pretext your SMS in the phone, email or your profile on the social network. This all is done quite simply, because a man (with or without reason) has a suspicion and he is trying to find a snitch that will answer his questions. If you notice this, be sure to talk with your boyfriend and do it as quickly as possible, because his unfounded suspicions can develop into paranoia.
Another signal that says that your loved one is jealous, can be his spontaneous desire to go with you to the movies (and this despite the fact that he had previously refused to do such trips). By the way, this desire sharply manifests itself at the moment when you are going out with your girlfriends or colleagues at work. This can be argued by the fact that he once decided to go with you once, because he wants to rest from the routine in a new place. The same applies to your visits to the guests or theater, etc. By the way, even the usual, but intrusive desire to let you down, may well be a signal of jealousy on his part.
There are times when the feeling of jealousy is manifested in a special way. This is peculiar to those people who like to search in all directions for devious ways to "how the mind tells". For example, during breakfast, your beloved (as if accidentally) talking about your acquaintance and in passing, at the time of this conversation, the question of the plan may "slip through" but have you seen each other ... Of course, this is not yet an indicator of jealousy, but if such a conversation during the day floats a few times - you are sure to be jealous.
Another sign of male jealousy is considered to be his emotional reaction to one of your male friends. For example, walking down the street, you met your friend, whom you have not seen for a long time. Of course. The meeting will cost without friendly embraces and kisses on the cheek. Then the long-awaited conversation begins, and your cavalier is already here. He also does not miss the chance to get acquainted with your friend and in every possible way tries to attract attention to his person. The same can happen, even if you saw a friend, whom you see very often. You boyfriend is still trying to attract your attention to yourself or starts to talk to the devil. In a word, doing anything that will prevent you and your friend from remaining alone. No matter what you say, the land is just overwhelming your loved one. So try to show him that he means to you much more than other men.
And the last thing, if your chevalier is jealous of you - let him do it, because all male owners and a sense of jealousy (of course, moderate) is an inseparable part of their life! The main thing is not to go far, noticing his discontent, and do not bend the stick, for any patience comes to an end!