If you just met, and you left him your phone number. If the guy immediately called back, then this is basically a positive sign: he can be taken seriously by you. Although, perhaps, he regards you as an adventure for one night. But, the fact that he called back is already a positive factor. It would be worse if your phone did not determine its number on the display.
If he called, try not to be too emotional and do not start making plans for your future together. It's worth keeping calm and turning on the brain. How to understand that his call means that he does not need you for a serious relationship?
If he called late, that is, promised at one time, and calls much later. Your conversation does not particularly stick: he is not tuned, to answer questions about himself, and about you is not particularly interested. The only thing that interests him is the meeting with you.
In this situation, it is worth considering whether you need this date. You can be sure that the young man will disappear after the first sex. If you are ready morally to this, then you can spend one night with him.
But, if still you are looking for a serious relationship and dreaming of true love, do not waste your strength and emotions on this young man.
The more difficult situation is when a man makes it clear that a girl is not needed, even though they have been in a relationship for a long time.
The beginning of your relationship could inspire the author of novels to create a new masterpiece. Your man was caring, he surrounded you with attention and love. But, unfortunately, your happiness somehow ended quickly.
Your man makes it clear that you do not need him anymore. How exactly does he do it - how do men make it clear that a girl is not needed?
You will feel a change in his behavior and attitude towards you. He was no longer pleased to meet with you and every time he finds a lot of work, just to not meet with you.
It is now important for him to stay at work or go to a bar with friends. He often forgets to call you, and explains it by the presence of high employment.
You stopped spending time together, although before that you had a huge number of joint activities that brought pleasure to both of you.
Quarrels became more frequent. At what, because of trifles. He constantly finds fault with you: he does not like the way you dress, the way you cook or, how you communicate with him.
You feel a lack of attention. You do not have enough love and care on his part.
If you sit down and analyze the whole situation and its behavior, you will understand that your man makes it clear that you do not need him anymore. Perhaps he met another girl or just stopped loving you. The saddest thing in this story is that a man does not have the courage to admit to you in this and talk about purity.
What to do in this situation? Pull yourself together and end up crying or making scandals for him. Believe that such methods have never helped anyone solve problems. If the man himself does not dare to go out to talk, do it yourself. You have to be determined in your decision - to put all the points on the "i".
When talking, do not blame him and cry, you'll only anger him. Ask him questions and wait for him to answer you. Try to come to a common solution together.
In any case, no matter how painful you were, understand that you will not be very nice. Let him go and just wish him happiness.