Recently, striptease is either condemned, or taken or simply silent about it. Such diversity in relation to striptease is explained by the fact that the moral values brought up in us since childhood do not agree with desires. Modernity is such that before it was forbidden - in our time it became the norm.
Since antiquity, the art of moving to music has driven people into raptures. Such a dance allowed expressing their intentions, desires and feelings. Over time, people divided the dances into decent and not decent. Striptease attributed to not very decent, and it causes a negative attitude perhaps due to the fact that he is dancing mostly in strip bars.
We get married - dreaming that we will live with our spouse all our lives. And it seems to us that if the family is created, then nothing can put our happiness. But in life everything happens. Every man has certain desires, which he strives to fulfill. Therefore, any woman should know that a strong half of humanity must be taken by female cunning, and not by force. It has long been known that the relationship between husband and wife depends on the woman, her wisdom and patience. She is the main keeper of the home, and it depends on you - what will be your meetings with her husband and whether his wishes will be fulfilled.
Erotic dance produces an indelible impression on any man. Imagine you in a nightclub , a merry party - and here it is. Dancing, give him special, only his views and he is yours. During the dance, enjoy what is happening and do not have to think about how it looks to others.
Striptease is also a sure way to refresh relationships for married couples with experience. Surprise your wife, dance a striptease. You will see what impression this show will make on it and how your relationship will change. In addition - striptease is not only an opportunity to please the partner, but also myself.
You want to give a gift to your man, but do not believe in your abilities, and feel embarrassed about your body. What to do? And the solution is very simple. You can go to a special school and take lessons in striptease, especially since there are a lot of such schools. Or try learning the art of erotic dance yourself. In the class you will better know the possibilities of your body, get rid of complexes, and that can significantly lose weight (20 minutes of dancing is minus 160 calories)
Let's talk about what you should not do, mastering a striptease, so as not to spoil the impression of your dance.
Firstly, when dancing striptease, do not be embarrassed and do not be shy about your figure. For your only, you are the best, and even in a moment of passion, he will not pay much attention to the signs of your cellulite or to the wrinkles on your stomach.
Secondly, remember, for the show it will not be enough to learn a few frank poses in front of the mirror. Striptease is not a pose, but a dance where the movements should be connected and worked out.
Third, work out the movements so that your body remembers them. The whole body dances and your facial expressions take part in it. A smile on your face, a flirty look is very important.
And, fourthly, that not least the show should not last very long (no more than 4 minutes)
Running a striptease at home, stops many because of the fear of the scene, even if you have a viewer in the singular. To do this, there is a simple but effective solution. Imagine your show in the form of a game, and if a man is not warned in advance, you will get a bright surprise. If you perceive dance as a game, the fear of performing will pass.
In addition, in a home striptease, there are their own charms. They are in the presence of various items, for example furniture. A table, a chair, a door jamb, a cabinet wall, an armchair - these items will help make the game in your show exciting. Use imagination and most importantly be yourself, and do not copy anyone. Remember - he already chose you.
Now let's talk about what makes your home striptease - great.
Your self-confidence is important. A man likes not only you, but your body. And the desire to hit him, therefore, do not doubt, will cause only admiration.
Choose a special music or the melody that you both cause pleasant and erotic memories.
Be attentive to the choice of shoes. High-heeled shoes are a no-lose option. But if you are not confident in your abilities and are afraid of trouble, then you can and without them. The rule is simple - choose shoes, they should be without fasteners, and stockings on you. And if you refuse shoes, then everything will turn out fine without them and without stockings, but with a bright pedicure. And it will also be great.
Your first experience? Not scary. To learn the techniques of dancing enough to see, such as the movie "Nine and a half weeks," and practice a little before the mirror. In addition, you can buy a disc with striptease lessons or attend the relevant courses, taking a few dance lessons. When composing your composition, remember, it must match the music you have chosen.
And what to wear. Your stockings and underwear should be new, unusual colors - a man should see this for the first time. A handkerchief or a shawl will be an excellent addition to your image. It is very important that the fasteners on your underwear allow you to beautifully and smoothly undress. After all, the main thing in this dance is not hurrying to undress, let him wait, suffer.
Do not forget about the correct lighting. The dim light of a small lamp or candles will make you more attractive and will adjust to a romantic mood.
And most importantly your look, your lips. He will definitely pay attention to this. And if you start your dance after a romantic dinner for two with a glass of fine wine, then you will succeed and the evening will be unforgettable.
Therefore, if you decide to make a gift to your husband in the form of a striptease at home in your performance, then do not be afraid that you can not get professional. In this gift, the main thing is that this show is just for him alone. Therefore, the attitude towards what is seen will be determined.
Music, your make-up and clothes properly selected will create the right atmosphere for you and for him. If the husband confesses to you in his fantasies, then try to create a specific image. It will pleasantly surprise him. All in your power and the most important thing is to remember about your uniqueness and about it your viewer. Your dance should be a surprise. And the main thing is not to be nervous and not think about whether it will work or not. Be confident, because it only waits for you. The expression of the face of your viewer can be serious, but the main thing his eyes are directed at you.
The embarrassment will disappear if you realize that you are unique and your viewer is unique, and the dance itself depends only on your imagination and no matter how you move - it will be fine, as it is only for him. And if you make your audience a participant in the dance - your embarrassment will finally pass. Remember your man will accept everything from you - because it is only for him personally.
How did this dance appear. He came to us from ancient times and was destined for the gods. Dance - exposure had a sacred character. Dancers in India danced in pagodas. The bayaders were considered servants of the altars. At performance of dance the dope-grass for courage and various incense was used. The Bayaders looked after their appearance, especially about the beauty of their breasts.
In Egypt, there were women of Almae - they were ministers of the Osiris cult. Almae is simultaneously singers, dancers and musicians. They were invited even for family holidays. Almaeus also existed among the Jews. There is evidence of the evangelist Mark about the dance of Almea at the birth of Herod. In Babylon sensual dances gradually evolved from sacred pleasures into the public.
In Greece in the 4th - 3rd centuries BC, Heterizm was popular. The most famous hetaera in Greece - Frin's favorite sculptor was the first who legally suffered for exposure.
A modern striptease was born in France among students of art schools. Striptease was performed by the famous Mata Harri, claiming to have learned the techniques of exposing the east. Isadora Duncan, Sergei Yesenin's beloved danced with bare chest.
Nowadays, striptease is included everywhere in the programs of any club party. And so the striptease became more bored than a forbidden fruit. In each country, the shows have their own differences. In the US and Canada striptease as an annex to dinner, in Australia in expensive variety shows undercover striptease. And in Germany there are so many erotic shows that they began to conduct antistriptiz when a woman of old age dresses, dancing, and she is paid for it. And only in France erotic dance was elevated to the rank of art.
Let's sum up - a striptease is what you think of it. One thing is clear, if you decided to impress your young man, then make him this gift. A special feeling of such a gift will come from a husband who has lived with you for many years and naively believes that he knows you very well. Striptease will make an indelible impression on him and in your relationship there will be something new and unusual. We hope that you will never ask the question: "I'm embarrassed to dance a striptease to my husband, what should I do?"