How to react correctly to his suspicious correspondence in social networks

Correspondence of a man with the opposite sex always gives birth to suspicions of treason in his companion. This is a normal woman's reaction. If you find an ambiguous dialogue in your male's phone or on his social networking page, do not rush to bring charges. The fact of violation of personal space will inevitably cause a quarrel and mutual insults. First, try to understand the reasons for the appearance of the virtual interlocutor and his interest in communicating with her.

There are two reasons for this:

1. Virtual flirtation. Many men consider flirting an innocent entertainment. While in the correspondence there is no question of a real meeting, there is nothing to worry about.
2. This is his long-time friend / colleague / ex-girlfriend. Pay attention to the nature of communication. Themes with sexual overtones are a serious reason for excitement. At any time, the transition from conversations to real actions is possible. A common mistake for women in this situation is to put an ultimatum. Even if a man removes a page from the social network, if he wants, he will find a way to flirt with others. It is very difficult to control this process.

How to act?

If the detected correspondence seemed too blatant to you, do not show your resentment. Perhaps a man is just looking for new emotions or relieving the tension that has accumulated between you. Psychologists advise to move away from the situation. Take care of yourself and work on your appearance. Such changes will not go unnoticed: the attention of a man will switch to you, and virtual dialogues will stop by themselves. Another option is frank talk about your relationship. Find out what bothers or does not suit the partner. Most likely, he clearly will let you know what he lacks. (Just do not wait for a man to confess about correspondence). After solving problems in your pair, the partner will lose the desire to communicate with other girls.