It is impossible to imagine a happy marriage without the mutual respect of the spouses. You have sworn to be around at any time in your family life until old age. If there is no respect for man's actions, for his habits, then, marriage does not last long. Change the situation! Learn to respect each other.
Own opinion
It is important to have an opinion on any issue. A happy marriage is possible in a couple where the spouses consider each other's desires. They come to a compromise and find a common solution of any questions that satisfies both. In a healthy debate, truth is born. Thoroughly weigh all the pros and cons. Parenting, family planning, major purchases, moving to another city, changing jobs, and many other things that invariably appear on the road to living together need to be addressed together. Each of you must express your opinion, and together you will come to the right decision.
Sex.
A happy marriage is impossible without sexual relations. Making love brings people closer, makes them close to each other. Varied sex, experiments, role-playing games will help you to keep interest in sex both spouses. Remember, there are no prohibitions and "unauthorized" things in bed, if both like it.
Gradually, after long years of living together, your sexual desire may go down or into the whole abyss. Do not miss this moment! Take action to keep the sex life in pairs. Talk with your spouse about what he would like, what are the comments about your behavior in bed, what erotic fantasies your spouse visits. A frank conversation will help to maintain mutual sexual desire for much longer than if you let it go. Do not make such a mistake.
Pleasant trifles.
Fill your family life with pleasant trifles: smiles, leisurely conversations, joint rest, small gifts, romantic dinners. Take time for two when there are no children, friends and relatives nearby. When was the last time you two were together? Just talked or looked together at the stars, walked around the park? Remember how it was at the very beginning of your relationship. Repeat crazy actions. All this will help to bring you closer to your spouse, to rekindle the fire of passion and desire.
Support.
A happy family life is impossible without mutual support. If one of you has problems at work, relatives are ill, or any other difficult situation, do not become withdrawn. It's easier to go through a complicated phase together than one. For each person it is important to know that people who are holding it will take pity, counsel, and calm them. Such a relationship between parents will be an excellent example for children. Proper education will help your child become a real person, respecting moral and family values.
Frankness.
Discuss with your husband all your problems, share your experiences, listen to his opinion. It is not necessary to hide anything, especially, to deceive the spouse. Sooner or later everything will turn out, there will be a scandal, as a result of which you will feel guilty, and the husband - offended. A happy family life is based on mutual trust and discussion of all issues openly. Better a bitter truth than a sweet lie - the golden rule for a successful family life.
The family is just for you.
It is not necessary to involve relatives, acquaintances, friends in your problems. Your family problems and misunderstandings you are able to solve together, without involving a third party. Do not tell anyone about your family life. People often envy other happiness, dissolve gossip, climb with their advice. The events taking place in the walls of your apartment are not designed for other people's ears and eyes.