We clarify the problems
In fact, as in any other situation, do not panic immediately. Maybe your husband just has a mood or problems at work. Well, what are they worse than us? In this case, it is necessary to talk, find out the reason. Perhaps your beloved men need to speak out, share with you, and you will be his best support and a reward. Or maybe your husband, on the contrary, does not want to share with you the most sordid. Yes Yes. And do not be surprised. It is secret. Most men are used to solving problems on their own and, in contrast, from us women, sometimes just to express themselves, to share their sore, they seem unacceptable.
Beauty inner = beauty of the outside?
It's another matter if your man is doing well and working, and with health, but you do not get the due attention from him. Flowers are two times a year, for a birthday and the eighth of March, and some do not even have one. Not one single piece, no warm word, superfluous gentle look. And there look Isex became a rarity, as they say, out of habit. What in this case is the woman doing? I want to talk, speak. Often, women act out of the blue and can say to their husband: "Darling, why did you stop making me the compliments? Do you love me? And I'm beautiful? ", And the like. Most likely, this will not lead to any positive result. It is unlikely that a man will answer you, that he does not love you or that you are ugly. At this point, it is necessary to "include" the so-called feminine wisdom or even the right to not say, cunning. First, sit in front of the mirror and look at the reflection, frankly tell yourself, do you see in the reflection a tuja, that beautiful, cheerful girl that your husband once loved so much. Any respectful and loving woman, it is simply necessary to always look good. Even at home. Even after ten years of living together. A beautiful lace underwear and a new elegant dress has never hurt any woman. Believe me, no matter how it was there, and whatever they say, even when in a modern world a woman is in no way inferior to a man, a strong beginning still does not lie in the girls. In other words, in men, no one killed those hunters who we all heard about. Pamper yourself and make a man unpleasant! Believe me, you both will like it!
Many women often can not monitor themselves, motivating that the children, life, there is no time. And anyway, if he likes, then he must perceive and love the kind he is. He is a lady, it's ridiculous and silly. So let's all swim with fat, we'll walk in the curtains and greasy dressing-gown around the house and wonder, and why is this husband so admiring the burnt beauties in the bikini that is shown on TV?
A little petting
In addition to external beauty and grooming, do not forget and learn the behavior. In the conditions of domestic life, we often forget about manifestation of any kind of caresses and tenderness, but we demand the same men. They are adult children, how masculine and strong they did not seem. And every child needs warmth and care. It is not surprising if a woman stops giving it to her husband, worse, she always cuts constantly, that her husband will not want to give anything in return.
Often, having been married for many years, the couple also have a feeling of passion. Ordinary life goes to bed with the spouses. Will bring a little variety to your intimate life. Hardly a man does not like experiments in sex. This does not mean that you need to run into a sex shop and buy there incomprehensible and expensive things. In fact, everything is much simpler. Leave the children for grandparents, take a vacation and spend it only together. Changing the environment not only allows you to relax and rest, but also make you look at your relationship with a fresh, fresh look. Remember as before, dozamuzhestva? You walked around for days, ran with your future husband for a date, kissed all night under the starry sky. So, what has changed? Tell me, years are not the same, children, work. In fact, in many ways we ourselves create problems and make our life and life of each other gray and mundane. It is not worth it to create a rule for yourself, for example, every Saturday evening or any other day, take a walk with your beloved husband in the evening city, drop into a cozy cafe or just take a bottle of wine at home and relish each other. Be easy, a little light-hearted, cheerful. And love yourself. Men feel it. If a man every day will see next to him, not a dull, boring wife, but a well-groomed, cheerful, loving woman, he will surely repay you the same.
Lovely ladies! Despite all the problems surrounding us, fatigue, everyday life ... Let's always remember that we are women.