Why are they not so active at 40? Men - like matches: break out immediately and at full power. And go out right away, as soon as the deal is done. The woman warms up much longer. In addition, in men with age, the testosterone level, on which the level of sexual desire depends, falls. The peak is 19 years (we mean the physiological indicator), which is comparable with the female level of attraction in 30 years. That's why women in their 30s often look for younger partners, and men in 40-50 are happy to have romances with not very sexy girls in their twenties.
Why do we argue with them about sex?
37% of men think about sex every 30 minutes, and only 11% of women think about it as often. And the whole point is that a certain amount of testosterone is continuously supplied to the blood of men, so it is "always ready". Women almost until 30-40 years sometimes complain that they are forced to have sex more often than they would like it. And only to this age roles change, and such complaints come from men, many of whom are not ready for sexual marathons in bed. Many couples do not understand why this is so, it is important to understand the individual cycles of your partner's sexual drive so that conflicts do not arise.
Why does a man have only one thing on his mind?
Men want sex, and women love? Well, yes, not really. Just a man is ready to perceive love only through bed and wants to have a woman here and now. To a woman wants sex, she needs to feel loved, desired, adored, necessary. A man needs sex before he has time to sort out all these sensual-psychological subtleties. This is the basis for most of the conflicts in pairs, but nothing can be done about it and you can not argue with nature.
The goal is orgasm?
An indicator of satisfaction for a man is an orgasm, and he mistakenly believes that this is true for a woman. And often uses orgasm, as a measure of his skill as a lover. The desire of a man to reach the end often presses on a woman and acts in the opposite way. Many men simply do not understand the full range of female sensations during sex, only the result is important to them.
Why is even the most ardent passion extinguished?
In the beginning of the relationship sex is great, the flame rages on both sides. She is ready to give herself all, and he so often gets satisfaction, that even he pays for it with emotional love. However, after a couple of years, he is already busy getting food, and she is maintaining order in the nest. And here both love and sex can gradually evaporate. A man and a woman bear equal responsibility for their sex life, although each of them tries to blame others. However, the key to everything in this case is sex. When it is good, everything else is improved. So do not let the routine get to your bedroom.
Why are men so turned into debauched clothes on a woman?
The male brain needs variety, a change of pictures, that's why new sexy lingerie can very much excite him. Man, unlike other mammals, can deceive himself and imagine that he has a whole harem of different women, if his beloved skillfully reincarnates in the bedroom. Studies show that women who choose sexy, candid underwear, are much less likely to suffer from the betrayal of their husbands or boyfriends.
What excites us?
Below we gave a list of the most exciting things for both sexes, which speaks for itself. Men excite visual images: they want to see shapes, bends, details of the naked body. Women love words and feelings, muffled light or darkness, since this situation is more in line with the sensory organism of a woman. A man needs an obvious causative agent - so think about a beautiful home striptease!
What do men want in sex?
In fact, very small - to defuse sexual tension with good orgasm. After that, he needs rest and restoring his strength and, therefore, often falls asleep. In addition, often a man uses sex to express his feelings, which he can not communicate verbally or emotionally. Even if a man does not get along at work to relieve stress, he will most likely resort to sex. Tests say that a man who wants to have sex, badly sees, hears, is often unable to cope with complex techniques. After sex, in his brain, everything clears up and often there is a solution to the sore problem. A woman, more often than not, does not notice that her husband has troubles that he prefers not to spread, and resents being "used" in bed.
Why do men have sex in silence?
It's simple: at one time a man can only do one thing. And they are not very fond of talkative women. A man can even lose an erection if he has to listen. During sex, his right brain is so active that he becomes almost deaf. So do not overload your favorite information in the process of sexual intercourse.