Man and woman are two absolutely opposite worlds, with different energy and perception of the world. However, to get along with a man - an eternal hunter for adventure, you need to know a couple of techniques that will help contain his predatory almost primitive spirit in a peaceful channel and close to you. These techniques were called training methods or "the taming of the obstinate".
What is necessary for a successful start of training?
In order to use the methods of domestication of a man, it is necessary to study every day even the smallest ones that occur with their changes, including his nervous system. The most actively subject to the promotion of men to 30 years, and after 30 years - give in, but much more difficult in view of the already established habits of behavior and values. Also, the force of a woman's influence on a man depends heavily on his type, that is, it is necessary to take into account the individual features of each of the types of character present in a man (sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic, choleric). After all, as we know, in the pure form of the type of man is extremely rare, it is usually mixed. Also in the approach of man should be guided by a sense of proportion in everything. The main mistake of women at this initial stage of training is to look at the man in the property and excessive control over him ("stretching the leash"), which subsequently leads to a misunderstanding of the woman's behavior by the man. To reinforce the initial stage of training, it is necessary to be guided by the woman's clear building up of the principles of training and their adherence.
Principles of the work
Before you begin to train the "ward", learn to control and weigh your own actions first. Make sure that the interstices have emotional contact and affection and only after that you can proceed to the formation of the principles of training:
- do the first steps of training in an unobtrusive way;
- accustom your "pet" first by simple trainers, then passing to more weighty and difficult;
- Do not start developing new skills in the pet, until you consolidate the result of the two previous principles;
- the introduction of a new methodology should be carried out at the beginning of your acquaintance in the morning, while the man is obedient enough, and not tired of daily work;
- duration of training increase gradually;
- the trainer must constantly take into account both external conditions and internal ones;
- clearly define what you want to achieve in the end. Develop yourself a strategist, not a technique.
Errors vperedirovke:
- the lack of the obtained data and information about the object of training, its way of life;
- unnatural behavior in relation to a man during procedural orders;
- modest, timid and indecisive behavior close to the "experimental";
- obtrusiveness of the training attention, excessive caress and softness of the man.
Exploration method or approach to a target
Everyone knows that a man sees this world in his own way, through his own spectrum of views. In connection with a different vision of the surrounding, men are divided into three groups: visuals, audials and kinesthetics. The visuals like everything bright, throwing in the eye - your bright make-up, the expressive interior in the house. Audials like to listen to music and talk about themselves loved ones. And kinestetikam like the smells of your exquisite spirits and lush female forms. Also there is another type of male bore, to live with which is extremely difficult, but it is possible with your desire.
Men-bores according to their characteristics are divided into:
- rigid-aggressive - they are straightforward, eccentric, aggressive, but quickly move up the career path;
- melancholic - they require constant attention to themselves, do not take jokes on themselves, are very pedantic;
- hidden - they are constantly dissatisfied with something, although they are attentive to any little things (remember your every word);
- miser - they love super-precision in everything, right up to the record of each ruble you spent. In order to fight for at least equality in the management of the budget, do not show him all the income, let things appear in the house with the good will of relatives or friends;
- spender - the complete opposite of the miser. They are cheerful, easily presented themselves in everything, this lightness is manifested in relation to money. This behavior is due to too poor ancestry of your "experimental", or an indicator of the most spoiled upbringing in a family where everything could always be bought;
- virtuals - they create your own world for your own ostentatious success, with this type of best to find out the relationship, otherwise you risk ruining your life. Of these, often go out gigolo, freeloaders, who, using their unearthly beauty and bathers, intoxicate girls and women of the head. Run away from this type of recklessness, they are like chameleons;
- ladies 'and ladies' lovers - they in turn are divided into 4 categories:
- Don Juan Romantik-they are attracted by the mystery and inaccessibility of women, if you skillfully use this indicator, then he is your patient;
- self-affirming-donzhuany often even afraid of women and convict them of infidelity because of their own complexes obtained in early childhood or manifestation of unrecognized women, needs patient and constant courting to increase their own importance and need;
- sexual dandies love freedom, are prone to frequent changes of partners, but if you are patient and can close his eyes to his adventures, he will certainly appreciate your not infringing his free movement through life;
- Platonic womanizers often give themselves out by the constant distribution of compliments to the left and to the right, but they are only one - tame their person, related to these manifestations of syumor and understanding.
It's not a secret that the main hormone of a man is testosterone, which is better produced when meat is taken, so the expression "the way to a man is through his stomach" has not been canceled, so act! Take care of them, demand no less attention to yourself. However, if a man does not want to change for the better, lies on the couch all day, switching TV channels, and waiting for you, on your fragile shoulders, to bear all possible family burdens on the maintenance of the family, it is not superfluous to show who is in the domain owner. Although, if you do not like to cook, wash and clean and other home work, you can with a clear conscience pull the material burden of the family, and your pet let him arrange home warmth, comfort and cleanliness.
Also, do not forget that a man is a being that changes his views and preferences depending on his age. For example, at the age of 14-16 he is a tender romantic, by the age of 25 a man becomes an ardent lover, at 30 he is serious, balanced and alien to his former sexual madness, and at 45 - he needs to keep his ears open! In pursuit of the passing youth, often family members run to a younger body, trying to change and outwit fate. However, if you stay not only externally, but also internally fresh, your skinned cat will not go to trouble, it will lie at your feet.