First, we'll figure it out in the situation. If your guy is sleeping with guys., The question to the girls: what exactly do you mean by the term "sleeps". If he is drunk in the trash out of the couch next to his friends after the party, then there is nothing strange or shameful about it. Even if a young man hugs his best friend in a dream. Do not forget that in a state of deep intoxication people sleep very tightly and do not understand what exactly is happening around them. So, when he embraces his Vova or Vitya, perhaps your guy is sure that you are next to him.
Or maybe a young man likes to joke so strangely. Yes, I agree, this kind of humor is very specific, but there are also such people. A guy can joke constantly to his friends for a joke, hugging and kissing, telling that a man is an ideal party, and it's very nasty to sleep with a woman. In this case, he will embrace you, and in a minute he will begin to lay down on his knees to his friend and ask him to caress and kiss him. And, in his eyes will be so much tenderness and love that you involuntarily will begin to be jealous of the guy to the guy. Do not be jealous. It's just that a person wants to attract attention, and, since all other ways have already become too banal, he tries to attract views like pseudo-empathetic behavior. It is better not to pay attention to such "numbers" at all. Sometimes guys just angry us that way. And, not for anger, but for fun. They think it's fun, play gay and look at the reactions of their friends and girls.
If such a guy really gets into the company of a man of non-traditional orientation, but immediately forgets about all his "inclinations" and will behave like a normal man. Even if an hour ago he tried to hug his friend, not paying attention to the fact that he was completely busy with his girlfriend. Therefore, in such situations, do not pay attention to the fact that the guy is sleeping with other guys. All this happens in words and does not threaten your relations in any way. The only thing that can happen is that he will sometime get bored of friends with his jokes and get them right from the face.
Therefore, if you see that the young man is already clearly over-bending the stick, try to twist it, so that the conflict does not flare up. Even the closest and good friends who are accustomed to this strange humor, sooner or later start to lose their temper. Although jokes about homosexuality are popular nowadays, and men begin to behave like ladies, anyway, sooner or later, a normal guy gets bored and he goes from ignoring and words to assault. So try to still protect your loved one from such quarrels with friends. He really believes that it acts harmlessly. Therefore, it will be very unpleasant and painful for him, when the next request for a kiss, his best friend silently punch him in the face. Do not forget that men, very often behave like children. Just with age, they change the game, but the sense of proportion, for some reason, is not added. It is because of this, such, in fact, innocent, though strange jokes, can become a problem in the relationship between friends. So, as a wise and adult girl, try not to let this happen.
You need to get nervous and worry only when you see that the guy really is not joking. If you notice that he is clearly not friendly to some men, and they, in turn, reciprocate, then you really have to think about who you are dating. There are guys who hide their unconventional orientation and meet with girls, but, in fact, they really feel real love and attraction only for the guys. In this case, a man can have a family and children, but he will necessarily start on the side of lovers. There are women who agree to endure such a life and relationships because of love, financial gain and other factors. It may even be that the guy does not immediately understand that he is gay, does not recognize this and opens his essence a few years after the wedding. Of course, this is stress for him and for his wife. And here it is necessary to choose how to live on. Is it worth trying to maintain the appearance of marriage or is it better to let go of each other and try to find your new happiness. Therefore, if you see that your young man clearly has a craving for other men, think about how you see your future future next to him. Can you share a loved one, and not with another woman, but with another man.
By the way, not necessarily the guy should be gay, also, he can turn out to be bisexual. In this case, he can love you, but, at the same time, he will look at men. Such people in general are difficult to be polygamous. It can not be said that they are not serious about love. Rather, they believe that love can not be one. Such a young man can have a boyfriend and a girl whom he will love equally well and will try to do everything for these people. Here the situation will depend on your perception of the world and moral emancipation. If you can live in such a family, then you should not worry because of his behavior. In similar situations, this is absolutely normal. If for you it is abnormal and immoral, then, most likely, you will have to make him choose or break off the relationship.
In fact, if your guy is sleeping with guys, the question to girls who have gone through this, of course, can be asked, but, nevertheless, you yourself will have to make a decision. After all, your happiness is only yours, and only you understand how it can or can not be.