It often happens that having met a man, we begin to think about him, gradually falling in love with him. But how to put this man to yourself? This question interests many women. In order to arrange for him, follow the three commandments: listen, flatter and support!
Like a woman, a man likes ears
Many people think that the expression "loves the ears" refers only to the kzhen sex, but nothing of the kind, men are even more inclined to believe than women. Of course, women's praise should be right. For example, a man tells you about some of his "big" accomplishments, and you, approvingly listening, tell him about how good he is, or tell him "No wonder you're so clever!" Etc. It is worth praising it, and then it will shine like a light bulb. Men accept almost any flattery quite close to their heart, because they are everywhere looking for confirmation of their self-sufficiency and strength.
A woman should be able to listen to a man
By nature, women such boltushki, that in most cases do not allow literally insert a word to their interlocutors. It must always be remembered that a man wants to stand out, for example, telling a lady about his victories, and perhaps complaining about unfair defeats. And especially at the first meetings, to arrange a man to himself, it is not recommended to dominate the dialogue, be more cunning - let him speak out, while asking leading questions. Listen to your new friend very carefully, also try to give delniesovety in case he needs them, show a keen interest in his life.
Firstly, in this way a man in you will find a good interlocutor, and this is very important in order to place him to him, because far away each woman can be famous for her ability to listen. Secondly, this policy can play into your hands, since you learn more about it, you can thus make an approximate portrait of his personality. The main thing, do not forget to pay attention to this time on various trifles in his conversation and behavior, because the little things can also tell a lot about things.
The man is inclined to doubt everything
It's been a long time since that a strong sex is so called that its representatives must be enduring. It's no secret that a man does not want the weak to appear to himself or to other people, and since such serious obligations are imposed on him, he often doubts himself in all his abilities. Because of this, many male representatives are relatively strict, for example, they find nonexistent shortcomings, seriously "bothering" about this. If a woman wants to find an interesting man, then her task is to inspire confidence in him.
Any man is capable of many things in his abilities, but only if he finds a woman who can provide a good support to him in life, rejoice even in his smallest successes, not to let slips fall into despair. A man does not become a "superman" by himself, it is what a woman does. Even if you do not have a superman, and even with a job, you're lucky, but if a man is confident in himself unconditionally, then there will be strength to overcome gradually all the new peaks, and the woman will know that it is her merit. It is this tandem that is an example for imitation and can satisfy the demands of both sides.
To arrange for a man a woman must always be a "fox". It is not possible to show one's superiority over a man, even if it is in some way present. After all, a man always wants to seem the strongest - a defender for the woman and a support.