If the place of your boyfriend is temporarily vacant, unless you are forbidden to enjoy the sea alone? The hotel was advised by a friend who spent the rest of the year there. Quiet place - said, - not pathos, but cozy. Just what you wanted after the work of the hands and 24-hour nervous communication. Rest can contribute to innocent easy flirting, but not an occasion to further romantic relationships!
The first day of your holiday you spent as long as I had dreamed: I spent half a day on the beach, pebbles, half a day by the pool with a book. On the second day I went for a walk around the town, without excursions, just like that - to stare around and enjoy fresh impressions. These simple pleasures have inspired you so much that at dinner you felt kindness and love for everything alive and even a smile did not leave your face. It did not remain unnoticed! A young man sat down to you, a very decent young man.
Liked that dressed, not at home carelessly, as some tourists crawled into the restaurant, but carefully, neatly. You even rejoiced at the interlocutor and thought that here is just the place for an innocent easy flirtation, but not an occasion for further relationships, and this was quite satisfactory for you. So, the conversation was proceeding in a ceremonious and culturally noble manner, he had just arrived, had not yet looked around, there was such a special air ... He offered to treat you with wine at the bar, since the voucher was "all inclusive" and for him it was worth nothing. Well, if this gesture is worth nothing for a person, and he wants to make a compatriot nice for free - why not agree? Moreover, the wine in the bar was similar to compote.
The contents of the plates and the themes for the conversations were smoothly over, and your new friend invited me to take a walk.
But you originally wanted to end up with an innocent little flirtation, and, smiling, hurried to part. Especially since you felt that this communication begins to slowly start to bother you, you wanted to return to the joys of seclusion. But it was not there, your young man went after you to the number, without stopping to talk, while starting to grab your hands. You no longer listened, but frankly annoyed that she allowed herself this innocent, light flirtation. He barely avoided him, jumped into the room - and felt that she was tired, as if you were detained at work until midnight. And in my thoughts there was one thing - you did not give him reason, why did it happen?
Why is this innocent light flirtation, if it can be called flirting, gave him a reason?
When you woke up, you remembered an unpleasant situation, but thought that he would apologize or pretend that nothing had happened. But again I miscalculated! He never got rid of it until the very end, he just did not give a pass, tortured and ensnared with his harassment, he completely ruined the rest. You still could not understand why an innocent, easy flirtation must necessarily end with a bed? You just wanted to have dinner in a nice company.
Conclusion. If a man and a woman chatted together and had a bite, do not necessarily continue to communicate in bed. However, when a woman after half an hour of dating goes to a bar to drink wine and at the same time exudes into the space "goodness and love for everything alive", simply organized men can make wrong conclusions. But a new acquaintance could be decrypted right away. Heaviness of compliments and the appearance of carefully dressed for dinner demonstrates, precisely, the direction of thoughts and expectations. It is necessary to be vigilant, because the loss of this threatens problems.