Today we will talk about what is a female pick-up truck and what ways to get hold of a man are used by beautiful representatives of humanity.
Pick-up (from English pick up - "pick up") - the science of seduction. It is based on old psychological techniques: NLP, persuasion, game gestures, etc. Since the appearance of this phenomenon for many men pickup has become not just a sport and entertainment, but also a philosophy of life.The essence of the whole game is simple as a clear day. Divorce a lady for sex, and as quickly and naturally as possible, have fun with her at night, and then just as easily and naturally disappeared. Naturally, the pickpockets do not reflect on the moral side of the matter - moreover, many of them do it to take revenge on the female sex for some long-standing grievances ... But this is not the issue today.
As well as the male pickup, the female was born in the Internet environment. It all started with small sites about the men's pick-up truck, then independent resources for women. On the basis of this enterprising businessmen almost instantly organized paid trainings, courses and seminars of seduction.
The purpose of a female pickup truck differs little from a man's: to seduce the one to whom the look falls. After this, there may be options that the young lady chooses herself.
- seduce for sex, and then quit
- seduce to fall in love with yourself, and then give up
- seduce to marry
So what difficulties arise before a woman in the process of choosing, seducing the victim?
In fact, a woman at the initial stage of dating is much more likely than men. After all, the first step is always made by a man, and when it's a woman - imagine how unusual and flattering this is.
And even if he did not like you, no one will at once get rid of you - he will amuse his male ego.
Almost the same picture about sex. After all, usually the man first goes to the offensive and hints at a cup of coffee at his house. And then the woman is already ready for sex on the first date. It's unlikely that someone will refuse you. Impatiens, of course, can be caught or those who are serious, will be somewhat surprised by your perseverance and can be refused. But such, fortunately or, unfortunately, very, very little, so that you can go to sex without problems.
It's another matter if you have really serious far-reaching plans - to get a man to make you an offer. There will have to sweat, because getting acquainted and seducing it is much easier than keeping and making an offer.
In any case, you will have to apply all your knowledge and skills, see two steps ahead, cunning and create the appearance of your easy interest in the object. And a man should think that this is the process he is leading and not you.
So, let's go directly to the tricks of the women's pickup, which, of course, will add to your arsenal of seduction.
1. Be interesting, but independent. Let him see you, let him see your smiles and what you are interesting to others. No nervous gestures (fists clenched on the chest, linked fingers, etc.) Here the posture plays a big role - a straight back and straightened shoulders will say a lot.
2. Calm, just calm. Many women, when they like a man forget the letters and words of the Russian language, run into a stupor and generally behave like children. This can not be allowed. Always stay calm. It happens that you only have a few minutes to throw an invisible lasso on the object, there will not be a second chance, if you get frightened, get disoriented, or back off. Cold-bloodedness is your friend.
3. Send a signal. Even if you are beautiful, charming, sexy, etc. "How would he know if he did not notice you?" Send a stop light. The simplest thing is to catch his eye and smile. You can drop an object near it, so that it helps raise, etc. But do not overdo it so that your attempts to attract his attention will not turn into stupid perseverance.
4. Look 100%! Everyone knows perfectly what clothes make men in any situation pay attention to you: tight skirts, light blouses with a charming neckline, high heels, etc. Do not underestimate the makeup and hair. But! Everything should be harmonious and appropriate to the situation. Look stylish and relevant! In this case, not only your victim, but all the others will pay attention to you - and this will greatly facilitate the matter!
5. First conversation. When you managed to attract his attention, the pause between this moment and the first conversation should not be big! Talk at ease, calmly and clearly! It is necessary that he participated in the conversation a little more than you. During the time when you laugh in response to his joke, you can gently touch his hand. In general, do not forget about touching.
6. Think what you say. Never tell a man on the first date, especially if you just need sex, how many children you want, how many husbands you have, remember - men are rather shy creatures, and even your "Well, have you gone to me?" Can very easily frighten away and push!
7. Say compliments. Remember that a man no less loves compliments than a woman. It is important for them to feel special, unique. However, do not overdo it. Include the mind and say what he wants to hear, according to the occasion, place and environment.
Compliments are a very important way to get hold of a man and a female pickup truck. How correctly to do them?
First, it is necessary to understand that the compliments for men and women have a fundamentally different meaning and significance. If for a female it is an original share of pleasure and comfort for men is a certain guide to action. In your words there should be no emptiness and vague meaning. Focus on the details.
For example, "what you have I am beautiful, what you have is strong" - this is a complete failure, but "wow, you dexterously work with a screwdriver" - make him proud of himself! Plus, the following works without fail: when you say a compliment, lower your voice intimately - you'll see, this will work instantly.
The compliment should be MANDATORY sincere, or at least, told with 100% sincerity. To say that compliments in bed are more than necessary.
But! Never lisp with a man - they do not like it. Do not need rude flattery - it immediately gets through and your rating in his eyes instantly falls. Many compliments are worse than their absence. Remember this. You always need to know the measure. Speak clearly and clearly, no vagueness.
Best of all, when you really are imbued with sympathy and positive emotions to your partner. In this case, the ways to get hold of a man will be easier for you to implement.
Everything was invented a long time ago by nature. Males of very many species of animals are larger and brighter than females. And during the mating games, they spread feathers and turn one by one, then the other. Remember this. Before you just a representative of our species. He's a male. Therefore, praise and please him. Laugh and assent. But! Do not overdo it - we do not really need blatant flattery.
There is such a method as mirror reflection. It is very often used by skillful sellers to buy goods. Its meaning is the repetition of the words and replicas of the interlocutor. Through this, he has a sense of oneness with you. For example, he leaned back in his chair - lean back and you moved closer - do the same. Naturally, carry out these actions in a harmonious way.
Do not forget that the pick-up artist, in this case, you, not he. And the situation is leading you, even if it seems to him that he controls the process. Learn to mirror - learn to control the distance between you. Remember that tactile contact is very important.
Interesting, in my opinion, the remark - all these techniques will suit not only pikapersham, but also married women, because to remove and seduce your own husband - the task is much more complicated. You will need a lot more patience, a sense of tactics and cunning, because imagine what it is, after many years of living together make him again see you in a seductive, sexy, hot cat. And it's your job to make her husband look at you with different eyes and think: "Is this my wife?" Why did not I notice this before? ". By the way! Such a successfully completed operation is extremely useful for your joint family life in general! There is nothing better than a good marriage, in which the spouses are best friends and best lovers!
Honored wins, boring nights and generosity for men!