If you look into the past, for 40-50 years, you can see that almost all married couples were together for life. Virtually there were no divorces, and almost every relationship could be said that they are ideal. Nowadays the situation has changed a lot. The number of divorces has increased, almost every second or third pair diverges. And it all happens because of misunderstandings of each other, not the ability to listen, how to understand your second half.
Many girls want to be proud and independent. They like to show their character, and by no means want to give in to something to men. As a rule, these girls remain alone for a long time, and then they ask themselves whether the ideal relationship is possible now. They can not realize that in the fact that the ideal relationship now they do not add up only through their fault.
Although in our time you can see a lot of couples who live together long and happily. They are all so beautiful and perfect. Many people start to envy such relations of their friends. But the first impression is deceptive. Optional long-term relationships are ideal. We see only the shell of these relations. Here the couple is walking in the park, they are joyful, their faces are lit up with smiles, here they go shopping together, together they go to a cafe. But we do not know what is inside, we can not look inside this beautiful shell. The very inner shell is the personal relationship of a man and a woman when they are alone. And not always they are all smooth, and beautiful, as many people think. There are also quarrels, misunderstandings, reproaches, discontent with certain actions of the second half. As a rule, all this remains in their personal small world, and for others it is invisible.
Such actions can be called correct. You never need to show your problems on people. All problems and misunderstandings must be solved in a narrow family circle. Such relationships are more robust, unlike those where the couple constantly likes to quarrel and find out relationships with children, relatives, acquaintances or on the street.
Is it now possible for the ideal relationship to exist in our time. Of course it's possible. Everyone thinks that their relationship will necessarily be the best. In order that an ideal relationship exist, it is necessary that they be for love. When you love a person, you can always forgive him the most minor mistakes. Where there is sincere love, there is mutual understanding, mutual assistance, mutual respect. If these three components prevail in a relationship, then there will be less quarrels and reproaches.
If you need an ideal relationship, you never need to quarrel over trifles. You must always be able to find a compromise and make concessions. If you do not like something or do not like something in a person, you can just calmly discuss it.
Of course, an ideal relationship now is a rarity. People have forgotten how to appreciate each other. Many do not even understand what love is and how you can love. Everyone puts himself above someone else. They think that only his opinions and desires are correct. But this is not so. Relationships now, in the modern world, are possible. Possible in the event that a person learns to share his happiness and joy with another person. Learn to respect not only their interests, but also the interests of their halves. Interests are completely different for everyone, so it is important to show interest in the hobbies of a loved one. This is also the main point in an ideal relationship.