So, do you think that friendship is between a guy and a girl? No one doubts that there is a same-sex friendship. We all have girlfriends, with whom you can coolly gossip over a cup of coffee in a cozy cafe near the house. With which you can go shopping and consult on the account of recipes that will happily come to our rescue and help out of trouble. We also saw male friendship more than once. All this is beyond doubt or any surprise. But how to be with the friendship between a guy and a girl?
Most likely, without mutual sympathy, even friendship is impossible. After all, people somehow get acquainted, and the psychology of men is such that he is unlikely to communicate with little-sympathetic girls. But at the beginning of dating, you can not talk about any friendship - it's just the first glance, interested and even assessing, the first word that most likely appealed to your interlocutor. This is the first stage of the relationship, of which there are three ways out: either they develop into romantic relationships, or in friendship, or remain at the stage of acquaintance - then none of you just want to continue communication in the future. In this there is nothing condemnatory or strange - we all choose for our environment people who are nice to us.
It is often said that friendship with a guy is impossible, because the guys, as you know, "want only one." Although this statement is very exaggerated. It is easy to talk about sympathy - and it will most likely be pure truth, but at the expense of the appearance of sexual attraction - here you can argue. Sometimes it is much better to communicate with a person than to arrange intimate meetings. This understanding comes at some subconscious level, and grows stronger in our brains with each new phrase spoken by a future friend. And then comes another understanding that I'd better communicate with this guy all my life, than we will transfer our relations to bed rest and soon part. Why part? It's very simple: most often the person who became your friend has many positive qualities, but at the same time, you do not imagine yourself in the role of his girl, because in this plan you completely disagree with him. Such relations will necessarily end in a short time. But a good acquaintance can grow into a real friendship.
So to say that one of the opposite-sex friends necessarily wants something more than just communication, it makes no sense. After all, a man is still not a male - he can not experience sexual attraction to every girl, regardless of whether he is a friend to him, or she can act as a potential girl. Similarly, a woman: if she is just a human sympathy for a man, then they can make real friends. After all, if her wishes for this guy are big, she simply can not communicate freely with him, share secrets and ask for some advice. The enthusiasm of someone from fake friends is read in the eye, but you just need to look into your eyes more often.
True friends will never be jealous of each other to their half, because jealousy between friends is literally impossible. They do not want to be the only ones in the fate of each other, they are satisfied with the place of an honorable friend who does not exclude the presence of a beloved half. Moreover, friends are eager to make friends with their chosen ones, so as not to lose the opportunity to see and communicate periodically.
Such friendship, of course, gives rise to acute jealousy in your halves - especially if they do not have their friends of the opposite sex, and they do not believe in the existence of such friendship. You need to be ready for this, because you can not escape from jealousy. But real friends will always be able to find a way out of the situation, they will try to bring friends with loved ones and establish strong friendships between them.
Friendship between a guy and a girl does happen, and she is full of pleasant moments, which are not always possible in cases of same-sex friendship. After all, judge for yourself: you will never quarrel with a friend because of a guy that often happens with girlfriends. He, in turn, does not zarevnuet introduce you to his girlfriend. In addition, a friend will always come to your rescue, especially if you need a strong man's hand, and there will not be anybody nearby who could be able to help.
A male friend can help you when you get confused in a relationship with a guy. He will simply assess the situation with his, from a male point of view, and give you really necessary and effective advice. It's only we, girls, firmly believe that we know the male psychology and in fact sometimes everything turns out to be quite different from what we thought. Therefore, in such situations, there is nothing more valuable than a balanced male view from the outside.
Friendship by definition knows no boundaries in terms of age or sex. Friends are due to the similarity of interests and inner peace, so why do some people deny that such similarities can be found in a guy with a girlfriend? Why does homosexual friendship have a right to exist, and the same-sex friendship does not exist? Perhaps it is foolish to deny what exists, although all opinions have the right to be.
I want to believe that each of us will have real friends in our life, and it's absolutely the same whether they are girls or guys. The main thing is to feel the support of friends and know that you can always rely on them.