Perhaps it was inherent in nature - to balance the opportunities of men and women and their harmonious coexistence in pairs. Or maybe it is the fruit of judgments imposed on society by ancestors. Whatever it was, and a woman is not without reason considered a "neck", which man-head "in the right direction directs. In fact, it is precisely these actions that he is waiting for from her.
The behavior of a man in a relationship is full of intricate intricacies of actions designed to ensure the comfort of staying in these relations of each of their participants. The main motivators for him in the role of her companion are the desire not only to look successful for others, but also to be a great accomplice specifically for her. It is the woman who determines what will be the behavior of her companion in their pair. And it largely depends on it, how long their relationship will last as a whole.
Times change, people change too.
And now the equality of the sexes, as a philosophical life postulate, comfortably settled the minds of the majority. But this in no way changed the basis of the behavior of the sexes in the relationship. A man still needs recognition, support, care and care. And the woman did not become so physically strong as to cope with work that requires workload. In some ways, the behavior of men in relationships is a new strategy of the interconnection of opposites, of course, has changed: he became less dependent on the cooked breakfast and learned to wash his own shirts or tidy up the bed. But the overall strategy of long-term actions has remained the same: a man next to a woman is looking for caresses, warmth, tranquility, promises that he will certainly get everything and an unshakable faith in his ability. And he wants to give - as before - everything that he managed to achieve next to her and for her (at least, the man is sure of it).
A truly masculine quality.
This unrestrained, inexhaustible, constant and deep gratitude, which a woman so eager to see and which the man in a relationship with her so carefully conceals. This high feeling in his heart has not diminished over the centuries. As there was no more openness in his expression. Perhaps, this is one of those unsolved paradoxes of relations between the sexes: a man to his woman is always grateful enough to express his gratitude simply is not capable. But it's easy to share this feeling with your parents or friends.
What else dictates the behavior of a good man in a relationship?
First of all, the desire for comfort. A man is initially far more selfish and selfish than a woman. Therefore, trusting a specific partner, he tells her so much about herself and her emotions that she does not have time to listen to her thoughts. Naturally, like any person, extremely concerned about himself, a man is dependent on the psychological comfort in the relationship. Accordingly, depending on this quality and its behavior.
Next, calm. Here nothing has changed - as in the Middle Ages or during the time of cavemen people felt the need for a man in his own house, where his enemies and negative manifestations of nature could not break his peace and security - and he needs it today. Therefore, it is so important to meet a man with a smile and a hot dinner or a recruited bathroom. Any member of the stronger sex is a man of the first and last impression. And if these impressions were remembered to him as pleasant, then everything that was unpleasant between them, he will lower and safely forget.
Of course, one should not forget about the main factor determining the attitude of a man to a woman - this is herself.
More precisely, her ability to demonstrate her loyalty, loyalty and affection for her lover. Due to these simple qualities, any woman of any man can turn from a tough and ruthless conqueror into a controlled, warm and affectionate kitten. True, if these manifestations turn out to be insincere and the man finds out about it, his revenge will be cruel. Men are much more vindictive than women. And forgiveness is much more difficult for them. Some psychologists even associate such a masculine quality of behavior with the primordial nature of the stronger sex. As continuers of the family, breadwinners and conquerors, men are deprived of the ability to forget something important. Therefore, even having forgiven the beloved, he will not once again reproach her with her long-standing mistake, which pains him throughout his life. Even if a woman leaves and another love comes to her place, it is unlikely that she will be able to forget past grievances to a man.
There is an opinion that a man in a relationship first of all seeks physical pleasure and only then - an emotional relationship. And often it is. Not without reason wise people asserted that any relationship is built on three stages. First, there is a fascination with the body, then - the sympathy of the soul and, finally, the harmony of attachment of the physical and emotional. For men, this chain of development of relationships is particularly relevant. After all, they, unlike those who are fond of pleasant words of women, love first with their eyes and only then with their ears. Which, of course, does not in the least abolish the famous truth about the possibility to win the attachment of a man through gastronomic delights.
Of course, how many men, so many strategies for their behavior in the relationship. Someone likes a constant stir in emotions and in every possible way stimulates scandals and other psychological shocks. The other, on the contrary, longs for silence and stability and is ready even to pretend to be blind and deaf for them, not noticing the frankness of their passions. Still others remain loyal to the one and unshakable truth and terribly afraid to find themselves deceived, and therefore they rush from beloved to unloved, scarcely suspecting a retreat from the truth. But one thing about all the men of the planet can be said for sure. Each of them selects a strategy of behavior in relations depending on three things. The first is the goal that he pursues in a specific connection with the woman. The second is the feelings he feels for his wife. The third is the degree of bestowal, which he observes from his lover.