Although some of the one thought of online dating is shaking, many happy stories began there. In that case, why do not you try to find your love online? We asked the expert on relations and the "evangelist" of the website "PhotoStrana" Ekaterina Fadeeva to share tips on how worth and how not to look for a man of her dreams on a dating site.
It's hard to get acquainted with a man even at the age of 20, and it's becoming harder and harder to meet the right person over the years, especially if you have a bad relationship behind you. Sometimes it is difficult to find time for communication in the cycle of work and raising children. In this situation, many turn to dating sites that allow you to get acquainted without leaving your home and therefore require much less time. On dating sites, many are looking for a serious relationship. According to our data, 40% of men in the Photostrana are looking for partners to create a family. And thanks to the information on the page of the interlocutor you can always check the compatibility of your views and hobbies at the very beginning of communication. So, what do you need to do to find a man on a dating site?- Be realistic Too stringent requirements (for example, to external qualities) will severely curtail the list of candidates. Do not be too meticulous and respond only to blue-eyed blondes with a height of 186.5 cm, if you do not want the search dragged on for a long time.
- Be active. Often, users complain about the lack of attention to themselves, but they do not write to anyone. If all are guided by this logic, online dating sites will cease to exist. Remember: one registration is not limited to the case, your happiness is in your hands!
- Be open. Forget about past relationships and get to know different people. In the end, you do not know what looks like and what your ideal man is fond of until you find it. And if you want to know a better man, then go with him to the meeting: otherwise you can always stop talking.
- Do not send similar impersonal messages to you will be answered with much greater probability, if from your message it will be seen that you have spent time studying the user's page, and he is really interesting to you. Standard messages are unlikely to be noticed.
- Do not reject the negative. Everything is simple: hatred, rudeness and aggression do not cause a desire to get acquainted.
- Do not share too much personal information Do not be frank and do not share private information until you feel comfortable with the new interlocutor. Think about a separate SIM card for sharing numbers. Thus, if communication becomes a burden to you, you can quickly stop it.
- Do not forget about safety The first appointment is better to organize on a neutral territory in a public place where you will feel calmer. Be sure to let friends or relatives know exactly where you will be and with whom.