In order to understand how to behave with a person who threw drugs, you need to know and understand his state, motivation and much more. And yet, you need to be a true friend and a loving person to cope with this problem and help your loved one.
So, how to behave correctly? First, you should never be afraid that a former addict will be angry with you if you talk to him about the problems. Of course, he has a feeling of guilt before himself, he is angry with himself. He may react negatively to any comments, but do not be afraid of his behavior and go aside. Remember that drugs change people is clearly not for the better. They become aggressive, capricious, embittered. When a person tries to quit, the condition worsens even more. But, nevertheless, people need help and you must show that you are ready to provide it. With the person throwing this addiction, you need to talk and convince him that he is doing everything right. Remember that during this period, he at any time can break. You need to constantly be close to this person and help. But, in any case, do not behave as if you are following him. In this state it will cause irritation and anger.
Next to the drug-throwing person should be one who clearly and clearly understands the danger of the situation, consciously makes decisions and draws conclusions from each situation. Remember that the rehabilitation process of a person who has dependence on drugs, lasts not a day, not a week or a month. On the road to recovery, you will have to go through many failures together, which will lead to victory only if you can give him solid support and support.
Remember that before a person is fully cured, he is not in a position to fully and adequately control his life. If you see that it breaks down or has already broken down, but still tries to fix something - do not give up. Any help on your part is his chance to recover. Of course, in this situation, you yourself will not experience the most rosy feelings. In your soul may settle pain, doubt, a sense of guilt for the fact that you did not save it in time and did not save it. If it hurts you, you can break it. Therefore, it is necessary to talk about similar feelings with close people. Do not pretend that you are strong and will manage yourself. This is completely useless. In such a situation, you only put your psychological health at risk and increase the chances that it can not be cured by looking at your tantrums and nervous breakdowns. So do not be silent about what's bothering you. If you see that he is adequate enough to perceive your problems normally, you can discuss this with him. Just do not blame him and blame him for something. Believe me, he himself blames himself for his weakness and stupidity. Just tell me that you are tormented and ask for support from his side.
If you understand that it's too early for him to talk about this, discuss the situation with a close friend, friend, sister or brother. You can contact any of your relatives or relatives who can understand and support you. After you speak out and it will be easier for you, you can fight with new forces for a person who is not indifferent to you and try to win a battle against drugs with him.
If you want to help a person heal, remember that this can affect your relationship. In this case, not particularly important role is played by what kind of ties you are associated with: friendly, family or love. In any case, his behavior will not always please you. But do not forget that this period he passes through a huge number of difficulties and experiences. If a person is treated and he needs treatment, since it is almost impossible to save himself from such dependence, it means he will spend a lot of time in various consultations and in a support group. It may happen that he will have new friends among the "companions in misfortune". In no case should you be angry with him for spending more time with them and more often asking for help. It's easy for these people to understand it, because they are experiencing the same thing. And you, fortunately or unhappiness, it is much more difficult to realize the depth and power of his sufferings and experiences. So do not be angry and do not make up all sorts of nonsense, as if a person does not love and appreciate you more. In fact, he very much appreciates your support and, once he is cured, more than once will thank you for your help. You can be almost 100% sure that after a full rehabilitation, he will treat you with more trepidation, love and affection than before.
When you find yourself next to a drug addict, you need to be sure that he really wants to quit. People with such an addiction can very skillfully lie to distract your attention, to ask for a dose or something else that is necessary for him now. Therefore, if you are going to help and spend your nerves and forces on a drug addict, make sure that he really is struggling with his problems. But remember that he must do all this not for you, but for himself. Success can only come when a person sincerely wants it and realizes what he got into. You can not take responsibility for his successes and failures. Therefore, be very careful and do not let yourself be deceived even by someone you love and cherish. But, nevertheless, until the last try to save him and, if you see the desire to fight, do not retreat until the moment when victory does not come.