So it's not surprising that the problem: "My mom thinks my boyfriend is blue," interests so many teenagers.
What to do for young girls in love in this situation. To begin with, you need to understand why your mother thinks so. What is the reason? Perhaps it's only in the clothes, or, the manners and behavior of the young man also cause suspicion in the mother. All the same, moms, these are women of the generation where for a mile it was possible to understand who is walking down the street: a guy or a girl. That's why modern men, although they are extremely difficult to call it, cause parents a lot of suspicion.
And what remains to be done when the girl understands that her boyfriend is still a guy, but her mother does not agree with this at all.
It is necessary to spend educational work with the parent. The girl knows why her young man looks like that. So, you need to try to explain to your beloved mother. This will require magazines and the Internet.
For example, if an emo boy, then one has to patiently and patiently explain that there is such a subculture that promotes emotions and unisex. Of course, it will be difficult for mom to understand why a young guy dresses like a girl, constantly cries and falls into extremes, but what can you do, it's such a modern time. Therefore, Mom will have to get acquainted with a huge amount of materials in which it is popular to talk about this subculture, style of clothes and hairstyles. By the way, a separate conversation - it's the eyes brought up and painted nails. It is necessary to tell the mother that the make-up and manicure guys do not do to be girls. It's just that he is an image of an Emokid. And now there's nowhere without a black pencil and lacquer. It is so in the unwritten statute of the subculture. And if you do not make up your eyes and marigolds - everything, you're not rubbish (the normal language is "not real"). And this is even contemptuous in the youth circles. Here also it is necessary to children to run on shops of cosmetics and to choose to itself pencils and podvodki. Just modern girls like it when they take a young man for their girlfriends and sisters. We in fact so long ago achieved equality, here it also was shown, the truth, very originally.
Mom can also frighten the behavior of a young man. By the way, with parents acquainting themselves with information about the emo subculture, it is not worthwhile to show the pictures and read heartbreaking stories about cut veins. In that case, Mom will find out too much, and then the EmoKid will have to leave the girl's life once and for all, because the parents somehow dislike the thought of finding the daughter in the bathroom with the veins open. So, back to the behavior. The fact that a young man can jump sharply from laughing to tears does not mean that he is schizophrenic. Just a guy so in the image is laid. Emo is always required to show his emotions and emotions should be different. Therefore, if the mother planted the children to eat and the kid burst into tears over a plate of borsch, do not worry - it's him from happiness.
Another category of guys who differ little from girls are metrosexuals. These young people always have the perfect manicure and pedicure, a bunch of bbb and rhinestones on clothes, as well as guns, furs and everything that my mother bought fur coats and blouses for her princess. That's why such a prince somehow does not quite suit her. In addition, these guys talk too much about fashion like antics and behave somehow not at all like men. But even such a young man can be presented to his parents in the best possible light. After all, these guys always watch themselves, do not hang socks on a chandelier, wash, wash things and do not go with greasy hair. So you do not need to blush for them, at least about this. In addition, they can always help pick up the right outfit and makeup, advise an effective moisturizer and tell you where the best gym in the city. And yes, Mom, after all this, they still remain men. Of course, it is unlikely that my mother will be particularly enthusiastic about such a boy, but it's worth remembering about the alternative. Who is better: effeminate, clean and well-groomed low-drinking metrosexual go to the same man in a dirty Olympics and with a plastic bottle in his hand? So if you compare these characters, the scales are still leaning towards metrosexuals.
In addition, often, these guys are absolutely harmless, so mom will not have to worry about her daughter. In most cases, they grow up in families where there is no pope and thanks to female upbringing, are very gentle and kind. Of course, it is unlikely that a metrosexual suits the role of a defender, but, as they say, there are no ideal people.
Therefore, moms still should not be frightened and doubt the orientation, if such a guy once appears in the house, under the arm with her daughter. Such guys, if they are not completely turned on their appearance, are quite suitable for farming, know how to wash and clean and iron. So the girl, at least, will be saved from many domestic worries.
And in conclusion, I want to turn to mothers. This article, in fact, was written for them rather than for their daughters. Yes, modern young people in many cases are completely different from those in which you fell in love. Everything has really changed a lot. But still do not treat these boys too biased. Many of them will outgrow it. And even if they are not, they do not do anything wrong. Therefore, do not pay attention to how the modern guys look. Better evaluate it as a person. And then, perhaps, his bangs to the chin, and a bunch of rings in the ear will cause you not irritation, but tenderness. And the problem "Mom thinks my boyfriend is blue" will be exhausted!