There are many factors. But, he is still a part of the company, so you have to communicate with him. It takes some time, and this communication gets a little tighter. The girl starts to notice that he is not so terrible, that his behavior is just a mask or something like that, but somewhere deep down, this is a very interesting and pleasant person. Of course, no one thinks that he can like it, knowing what the relations between these people were originally. But, several weeks or months pass by and the girl notices that she is always interested in whether this young man will be at the meeting, how he is doing, whether he has found someone for himself. By the way, the last question, often, worries her the most. At the meetings, when the girl looks in the direction of the guy, she explains it by friendship and habit, but in fact everything has long gone wrong. Of course, you have to find the strength to admit - she fell in love, although many have already noticed.
The way a girl looks at a young man, how he talks about him, how much he remembers about him, when he does not, gives out all the feelings she feels. Even if the lady herself has not admitted it yet.
How much noticeable is that when a girl looks in the direction of the guy she liked? Of course, it all depends on the temperament and the character storehouse. If the girl is sufficiently closed and not used to show her feelings for show, most likely, that even the attitude to the young man has changed in a romantic way, will be noticed only by those people who know her not for the first year. But the talkers and extroverts, show their feelings right away, not wanting that. This is noticed by everyone, except objects of attention.
Yes, it's not strange, but men do not always notice the feelings of women, especially when these feelings are hidden. The fact is that not all the guys believe in love. In addition, there are often instances that, in fact, do not believe in themselves therefore and do not allow the possibility that someone might fall in love with them. The fact that such men believe that a woman can pay attention to him only if he will show enough attention to her, courting, giving presents. They do not allow that feelings arise from nowhere. Even more difficult case, when between the guy and the girl were quite strained relationship, and then she suddenly fell in love. This behavior does not fit into the male worldview at all. And as if the lady did not look at him, no matter how she showed her feelings, he will rest until the last and do not believe that this is really real.
Of course, not all men are like that. There are also those who notice everything at once, but they are usually in the minority.
What can I do to make a guy notice love or, on the contrary, keep it a secret.
So, first let's talk about the first case. If the girl wants to show the guy her feelings, you need to immediately put some restrictions for yourself. For example, do not hang on to him openly and confess your love. A young man will simply not be interested - and he is unlikely to begin to feel for you something more than the usual friendly sympathy.
In this case, you will need a flirtation. Looks, touches, smiles - use all your female charm. Show him that he is interesting to you, but not as much as it really is. Try to always restrain your impulses and emotions, but at the same time, you should never turn into the Snow Queen. If a young man does not believe that you can like it, then you will completely alienate him. Pay attention to its problems and interests, support conversations, take care of it. Let him feel the warmth from your side.
Well, if you feel that the person is feeding something to you, but he does not believe that you love him, then, perhaps, it is still worthwhile to talk directly. Here, flirting and other ways of interest are unlikely to help, and all this will drag on for a very long time. And you do not want a young man to confess to you in love, being already far from young. Therefore, just talk to him frankly. Explain that he really likes you, that you want to be with him and this is not a farce. Let the guy understand that you are serious. Then it will be much easier for him to open his soul and admit to you in love.
Well, now a few words about the second case. It happens that a woman does not need a man to know about her love. The reasons can be many: he certainly will not be able to love her, he has another, he is negative about the girl and the like. In this case, you should always remember about self-control. Never discuss a guy with friends who can tell him about it. Remember that there is almost a one-hundred-percent guarantee that someone will definitely say it. When you are next to this guy, stop all desires to look at him, touch, even briefly, try to please him and help him. Your communication should be absolutely friendly. Do not show too much interest in his problems and affairs, constantly offer your help. You have to convince yourself that you do not need it, that this young man does not suit you. Unfortunately, this is very difficult and difficult. So it's worth to warn that constant self-control will make you very tired and annoying. But if you really need it, then try to always keep yourself in hand. Remember that young people are not as perceptive as girls, so if you watch yourself, a young man will not understand your feelings.