Nothing happens just like that, everything from something follows. Why do women become those who can stop the horse and stop entering the burning hut? Many will say, but how else? When on your fragile shoulders a lot of problems are put up, which must be solved immediately, the execution of men's work and many other arguments. Perhaps, it is ... On the one hand, the weak sex acquires the features of a powerful person in order to live in such a dynamic world easier. And on the other hand, are not we ourselves to blame for our current situations? Male work should be performed by a man, and you should not tear a hammer from his hand, since you do not like how he nails a nail. Can a woman remain a woman? If you are tired of carrying the whole burden of responsibility on your fragile shoulders, we will try to figure out how to externally become a weak woman. How to encourage men to perform for us - beautiful ladies!
Female and masculine
In each person, both the feminine and the masculine are inherent. But the leading position is only one thing: for men - for men, for women, respectively, for women. But most importantly - to maintain this balance. That is correctly to correlate in itself the data of the beginning. For example, you are the head of the company. Of course, you need to exercise will, steadfastness, you have a male function. But it's different when you are in the family! No matter how difficult it was, you must try, at least externally, to be a weak woman in the eyes of a beloved man. Manners of the chief you should leave at work, and in a circle of relatives to be lovely, fragile, weak. On this theme, a remarkable film "Office Romance" was made. When exactly the external manifestation of weakness made of a stiff careerist a beautiful woman.
The role of women in the family, no matter how old-fashioned it may sound, to support your loved one. To give the man the opportunity to realize both his own and your joint goals, rather than bursting into battle. Believe me, you will be rewarded a hundredfold for the role of a weak woman! A man will carry you in his arms, protect, groom and cherish - protect from harsh reality. He will draw strength in your apparent weakness, even if you are by no means a weakling. Let's feel its significance, even if you are objectively stronger than it in many ways. In the opposite case, in your companion the female beginning will predominate over time. For a man, this is abnormal when a woman is in charge of it. Sooner or later a man will develop a sense of inferiority. This situation leads to disagreements, quarrels over trifles, lack of passion in intimate relationships. In the end - to indifference! Loosen your grip better and give the board to the man. And use the folk wisdom yourself: the man is the head, and the woman is the neck. Where the neck turns - there and the head will turn.
The role of motherhood and the role of women
It's so great to be a mother and a woman! However, in these concepts, although there are common things, but still these are different roles. And that's why. A woman, as a mother, realizes her masculine principle that she is ready for a constant return. Return on education, care, knowledge and experience. This is one of the reasons why after the birth of a baby, often in pairs, discord begins. A man does not understand the behavior of the other half. And it is only related to the protection of your child. To avoid divorce and other disorders in the family, a man must understand the reasons for changing a woman and not demand from her at this time impossible. The woman in turn should not forget about her true beginning, for the potential of the mother in us is fully developed.
Purpose
The modern world and fashion dictates its rules to women, which speak of independence and self-sufficiency. Yes, and in the family, since childhood, the girl has been taught the idea that it is necessary to get a good education, get a job well paid, so that no one can depend on anyone. After all, all men are so unreliable. Of course, it's pointless to oppose a career and personal self-realization. However, men can admire a self-confident, intellectual, able to compete with a woman. But admiration may not develop into love. Understand, the nature of a man is such that he will not receive sincere joy and pleasure, caring about a woman who perfectly does without him.
When a man is in the presence of a gentle, soft, trustful and in some weak woman, he wants to protect and protect his fragile creature. In search of our second half, we are guided by our negative principle. And if a man does not disclose his feminine essence in the partner, disappointment comes. And do not think that they are so weak, can not cope with a strong woman. After all, we are also looking for a companion in which our male half will be revealed. Of course, there are women who deliberately seek a pliable man, the latter in turn - "second mother". But these things are connected with internal complexes, which are also worth solving.
What is the secret of femininity?
A modern woman is allowed a lot. She can be a deputy, head, president. But if she takes an equal position with a man, she goes against her nature. The paradox is that whatever posts we occupy, no matter how much money we earn, we will not be truly happy, leaving it for our natural essence. Of course, you can take up self-confidence, wear masks, join feminist organizations of all kinds. But remaining alone with ourselves, we understand that something is missing.
There is one good Eastern wisdom that says: "We get what we are actively striving for." Many women are governed by the fear of being left alone, at worst, with a child. After all, men with the current availability of women do not want to work on relationships. You can think so. But if you change your position to the opposite - be open, vulnerable, weak woman. If you are not afraid to love and give a piece of yourself to a close person, then you will be looking for meetings not weak-willed beings, but real men.
Still I would like to give one reason. Everyone knows that the main qualities are laid in childhood. And if the little son will know that his mother is vulnerable, defenseless, she must be protected, then in his own and family life he will also perceive his soul mate. Treat her the way you taught him to treat you. I think you will be proud for the fact that you raised a true man. And all thanks to what? The fact that they allowed themselves to be a weak woman, at least outwardly. Experts give several recommendations how to awaken the female nature:
1. Treat things and situations in a feminine way. Part without regret with feelings of fearlessness, constant rivalry with a man. And in return acquire a sense of defenselessness and dependence on men. Refuse to constantly monitor everything.
2. Stop doing men's jobs. First, decide on what you want to refuse. Then share your thoughts with the man. Let him know that without his help you can not do. If he agrees, give him the reins of government for these types of work completely. The main thing, do not worry about the consequences of this act. Even if your man does not immediately begin to act, do not press him and do not brake. Maybe the train will move from the spot only in the event that you release the grip. And on the other hand, if you betray to some things an excessive value, this does not mean that your companion should also approach them. In the event that a man refuses to perform a certain type of work, do not immediately put them on their shoulders. Do what you can, and the rest will wait. Do not forget what you are aiming at, and enjoy your "feminine position". And after a while, go back to the spouse with this question.
Z. You have to do a man's job - do it like a woman. Do not show your male competence. Do it so that the man understands - you need help. In the opposite case, you will bear this heavy burden only on yourself.
4. Do not be afraid of obedience. Maybe it's not fashionable, but only in case of agreement with a man, rather than heated arguments and constant upholding of one's position, one can go to harmony. This is such a man's nature that they are humiliated when a woman takes over. Even if you have a different opinion, let it remain with you, because your desires can be presented very cleverly and unobtrusively. And only in matters of a moral nature must it stand up to the end.
It's not for nothing that in the distant past men fought for the heart of a woman. If you have a desire, in your beloved you can also awaken knightly feelings. If you at least externally become a weak woman, then men will take care of you, protect you and ultimately - love!