His actions: he is silent.
Until now, did you think that the boycott was something that remained forever in a silly school childhood? Has it become possible to make sure that all the delights of teenage methods have gone not so deep into the past as it seemed? Do not despair. It is not necessary to invent malicious notes and hang them with a refrigerator door or a monitor, such correspondence may be delayed.
Try to look at the situation from the side. No matter how great an offense, what happens between you is ridiculous. One competes in silence with the fish, and the second indulges his caprices. If it made you smile, make it "penetrate" him. Write him a funny note instead of offensive, apologize or tell aloud about your thoughts about fish and sheep, who suddenly settled in your apartment.
Do not be shy to admit defeat, you know that the winner is the one who gets what he wants. And you got your man back!
If the capitulation is not included in your plans, and the arguments about the zoo do not make him laugh, shut up, too. Perhaps, silence will be given to you a bit more difficult than to him, but, believe me, he will notice an unusual silence sooner. In the end, you will reconcile.
His actions: he talks too much.
You did not expect, but he rolled up a scandal? Expressed everything that he thought and what he had just invented? Have your lines gone so far as to turn into open accusations and claims? It's time for someone to stop.
If you can not calm your beloved, leave the room and leave him alone with your emotions. Let him grumbles at the refrigerator, not at you. If this did not help, and he ran into the next room to bring to you everything he had not yet expressed, go out into the street. Do not go far from home. Just walk around. Do not forget to take a mobile phone - maybe in a few minutes he will call to apologize.
If this did not help, go home and try to sleep - the morning is wiser than the evening. In the event that a loved one does not allow you to sleep and continues to clarify the relationship, do not lead to his provocation. Admit guilt where you are to blame, forgive him and tell him that you love him. If you did not respond to such words, it's worth thinking about - is your relationship really strong and sincere if he is more interested in causing pain than the other?
In the event that the conflict lies entirely with your conscience, do not bring the situation to scandal and your man to the state of affect, go to reconciliation before passion flares up.
Its action: apes.
You ask him to take out the garbage, but he demonstratively go to bed? You say one thing, but he does something completely different? His tactics are action from the opposite, that is, to spite. This is how little children and men behave, strange as it may seem.
It is not easy to get out of such a conflict, because there is a great temptation to do the same. But someone must necessarily be wiser, otherwise the destruction will be so great that in reconciliation there will be no meaning.
Do not demand anything from your man at this moment. Do not ask to do something, do not reproach. For a while, disconnect from it and live your life - an hour or several days, it does not matter. Periodically inform him that you are ready for reconciliation and expect steps from his side.
When the goal is achieved, you will have the opportunity to express everything that you think. It is important not to provoke him to aggravate his actions, otherwise because of harmfulness he will begin to pour ash on the bed or come home in the morning.
His actions: a break.
Suddenly, for no reason, he declares that you need a break and closes your relations for a re-account. How long it will last and what will be the consequences of such a step is difficult to predict. Usually, a timeout in a relationship does not mean anything, except that he wants to part. But there are situations when he goes to his mother or friend in his heart.
Do not try to return it on the same day. Call the next one, apologize and try to persuade me to meet and talk. Suggest to begin all over again, agree to give in what is important to him, promise and even navri with three boxes. If you need this relationship and this man, if you are ready to return it at any cost - act.
If your break is delayed, try to play with jealousy.
If the man has left and is not going to return, you will have to forget him, sadly. A week is different - no matter where it goes, but if it's not already a month, it means that you failed.
All these tips are only valid if you really care about your relationship. If you yourself are ready to rush into the attack at the first opportunity, if the instigator of all the scandals is you, then this benefit is worth reading to your man. But the most important advice is to be able not to bring conflicts to full-scale military operations. Sometimes it's better to remain silent than to shake the bitter fruit of your pride. And it concerns everyone - both men and women.