Who should love a tyrant?

A woman is a gentle, fragile and loving creature. What is to be done for this creation, when, after marriage, does it fall into the hands of a tyrant?

There are two options for solving this problem: leave or stay. Many women suffer tyranny for various reasons, it is hard for someone to leave their children without a father, someone is holding a living space, and somebody has feelings. The whole secret is that a woman on a subconscious level even before her marriage knows who she is dealing with. And although psychologists firmly assert the impossibility of looking out the features of a despot in their chosen one, these are the features that attract a woman to a man.
A tyrant man is confident in himself and always knows what he needs from people. He is strong, intelligent, authoritative. In fact, such a certainty, this is a manifestation of selfishness - he simply does not accept refusal to his desires. Strength and authority soon become power and despotism. And every woman wants to be close to a man strong, courageous, confident. Another secret is that a tyrant male deliberately chooses a weak companion for himself, preferably with a complaisant character, which especially needs a strong shoulder next to him. It's easier to explain how handsome, smart, and skillful he is. Such a person will quickly believe in his inconsistency, accept his living conditions and be a humble wife.

Having obtained the "sacrifice" the tyrant will never voluntarily renounce it. He has his own methods of holding a woman by his side - he beats on pity (for example, no one has ever loved me), showering compliments, convincing him of lack of will and an inability to survive without him, and if peaceful arguments do not bring results for a short time to use force.

So, dear women, to say goodbye to a tyrant later is not so easy. The decision is important to take in the premarital period. You should look at the chosen one if he constantly takes upon himself the choice (where to go, where to walk, what to order, etc.). When a man hints or directly speaks of his antipathy towards your friends and acquaintances, in the future, be sure, communication with them will be reduced to zero, this is a matter of time. A tyrannical man rushes to get the rights to a woman as quickly as possible, so do not be too happy about the quick offer of the hand and heart. In some cases, an extreme economy is traced - I forgot, I did not find a decent gift, I will save for the future family life - here you also have amazing economic, thrift and calculating.

But you can not order your heart, but for each catcher your beast flees. People love, get married and live together until old age. With a tyrant it is also possible to live a lifetime, not allowing extreme despotism and assault. This can only be done by a wise and cunning woman. It is necessary to admire and praise your husband for the slightest occasion, to remind him that he is the breadwinner of the family (in most cases, to have at least some voice, a woman should earn well, but in no way more than a tyrant husband), agree with all decisions made by him . Their thoughts and plans need to be implemented in life so that the husband takes them as their own. And if such behavior is repugnant and unacceptable to you, it is easier to break off relations than to turn a life into a nightmare by re-educating each other.