Is there another situation in your family? Are you already all right, and the house is a full cup, and the hearts are beating in unison? Then maybe the husband is afraid that the birth of a child can break this harmony? And you talk with him, try to persuade her husband to have children, giving examples of families in which the birth of a child introduced new positive shades into family relations. But do not talk in a hurry on the run, not with shouts and accusations, but try to create an intimate atmosphere, such that she had a spiritual conversation. It is necessary to create an atmosphere of confidential conversation. Maybe it'll be candlelight dinner? Or prelude before bedtime? Decorate it so that to intrigue your spouse, involve him in the discussion of the problem.
It is even better to organize a trip to nature with a family in which there are already children, but you need to be very careful not to get the opposite effect. Other people's children irritate men, especially if the child is capricious, demanding excessive attention from adults. Very carefully prepare for this event. Well, if you find yourself an ally, among your girlfriends, who has a calm and flexible child. Organize the trip so that everyone involved in it, especially, that there were contact games of adults with the child: sledging, playing snowballs, that everyone was fun and interesting.
Your actions should not be one-off, they should be planned, but diverse. For example, visiting your friends about the birthday of their child, of course it is better to show a small child, since a pretty little face can not leave anyone indifferent. After such an evening, you can gently talk about how well it all went, to remind what kind of Mashenka umnichka, how she funny amused, how nice ...
But with teenagers, you can organize some activities. For example, if your husband is fond of cell phones, or likes to play, you can find a family with a boy who is well versed in the topic you need. Organize a tournament game on the network.
If these actions do not lead to a positive effect, then you need to start a more detailed, serious conversation.
Try it during the conversation as you can reasonably explain why you want to have a child. But before you start this conversation, ask yourself, are you definitely ready to become a mother? Why did you decide to have children? Why do you need a child? Can you, therefore, try to strengthen your family relationship? Are you afraid that your husband will leave you?
Think, maybe you do not need to persuade your husband to have children, maybe you value your relationship with your spouse so much that you are ready to sacrifice your dream? After all, children, on the one hand, are joy, happiness, sweet "walking" and a sweet smile, and on the other - great responsibility and concern.
If the child is the most valuable thing in your life for you, then maybe you should change your destiny radically? If you are ready for this step, then put the question with the edge "Or divorce, or child."
If by any means you did not manage to convince your husband that you need to have a child, then ask yourself the question, but does your husband really love you? Is it possible to call love relationships, in which there is no place even a simple mutual understanding?