Scientists psychologists and sexologists have developed the characteristics of various types of men, depending on their sexual preferences and congenital temperament. They argue that many problems can be avoided if the woman knows exactly which type her partner belongs to. Well, it would be superfluous to study them and to understand who they really are, these men - and their sexual needs and opportunities will no longer be a surprise or an unpleasant surprise for us.
Don Juan
In life, he is looking for the perfect woman. At first glance, there is nothing wrong with that. But it can be dangerous. Psychologists say that it is this type of man who is prone to hidden sadism. Each woman for him - just a trial version, the subject of experiments. He can be a subtle and refined lover, but he only checks to see if you can be his ideal. Every little thing, the slightest discrepancy with its standard - and it is already disappointed, and a new search continues. He knows how to part, and he does it like this: "You are my only love! I had no such feelings for anyone else. But we must part. The wound in my heart will bleed for a long time. "
How to keep him?
It is useless to try to do this with different sexual tricks. He will always run in search of a new love - his sexual needs and possibilities are endless. You just have to be very gentle and sensual. Try to understand that this person's psyche features in the need to collect more and more trophies. But if you suddenly decide to make it your trophy - everything is lost! Your union is doomed. If you really want to help a man of this type (and he really needs help) - it's best to seek help from experienced psychoanalysts.
Casanova
Men of this type do not promise big and pure love from the very beginning. He emphasizes his cynicism, saying that in relations he values only freedom and sex. He seems cold, though a passionate lover. In fact, behind his outward self-confidence lies a multitude of hidden complexes and doubts. He, like Don Juan, studies women, but does not burn them with love. He simply learns the technique of love, accumulates experience, satisfies his sexual needs and corrects mistakes. He is willing to experiment with group sex, does not understand that in bed can be a perversion. Women go crazy about him, knowing full well what kind of character this Casanova is. Simply deep down, everyone thinks: "I can tame him." And bitterly mistaken. True, parting with him will be less painful than with Don Juan, as he never promises great love.
How to keep him?
If your spouse Casanova, realize the simple truth: such men always go. Adultery in his character. If you want to stay with him, you must accept this as a fact. Just relax and have fun with his sexuality, passion and skill, it's a pleasure to deliver. Carry out all your hidden fantasies with him and turn his life into a sexual rodeo. Do not let him get bored! And do not be bored. Just glow as long as you can. And as far as the mutual flame is enough, no one can know in advance.
Patriarch
His wife and family are the only meaning of his life. But he is so afraid of losing them that he constantly imposes his control. Sex is based only on his own plans and concepts about this process. He recognizes only the "missionary position". He will never allow oral sex, because you will be an active party in it. A man of this type should always control the situation. His sexual needs are extremely limited. It can not be said for sure that he is not manly enough, but with him your sex life will definitely be doomed to monotony and boredom.
How to keep him?
Do not despair! Inside it is hidden the greatest sensuality and passion. Your task is to lure them outside. And every woman has every opportunity to do this. First, tell him how much you admire his strength, how he excites you, what a wonderful lover he is. If you can save him from the moral uncertainty that was instilled in him once in his teens, that sex is "shameful" - he will be able to reveal himself as an excellent partner and a sincere, loving man. And moral foundations in terms of the value of the family he already has.
Mister
He feels himself a winner and considers you his "conquered territory". You have no right to vote. Even the slightest suspicion that you can think of another can make a beast out of him. In his quest for power, he is ready to despotism over you. And he prefers a hard style of communication. Loves oral and anal sex. He simply believes that a woman is called to be a slave to his sexual pleasure. And he always gets it in a gentlemanly manner and at the same time cruelly. Surprisingly, this type of men is very popular with women. They suffer with them for the rest of their lives, but do not see a partner and a lover better.
How to keep him?
Here, rather, there may be a question - how to escape from it ... In fact, there are very few women who are able to be morally stronger than these men. It can be a masochist or a female vamp. Any other woman should think three times before choosing a partner as Master.
Narcissus
This man is kind and gentle. Want to win his heart - admire him at every opportunity! Narcissism is a mental aberration that has been going on since childhood. Perhaps the parents wanted to have a daughter, but a son was born. And they began to educate him as a girl: dressing up, growing long locks, constantly repeating how beautiful he is, etc. Later the parents understand what they did, but it's too late. Their child becomes a beautiful and cold egoist. The main object of Narcissus's sexual desire is his own body. His ideal sex is masturbation in the presence of his partner. In his opinion, a woman can easily be replaced by a mirror or even a male partner. Narcissus can be a super sensual lover, but for this you must constantly admire him. Many women get tired of it sooner or later.
How to keep him?
If your main erogenous zone is the eyes, then it is right for you. But know that you will not get anything in return. And if you want to somehow change the situation - try to help Narcissus overcome their complexes. He thinks that he can be interesting only because of his beauty. He does not believe in his strength either as a professional, or as a husband, or as a man in general. Praise his decisive actions, not the appearance. Maybe you should not even do it alone. Refer to an experienced psychoanalyst.
Sissy
This man looks at his beloved woman primarily as a caring mother. Sex with her, he subconsciously considers a crime. Even the erection in this case is problematic, because such men prefer oral sex. Often inclined to homosexuality. For all their tenderness and romanticism, they do not know how to make decisions at all. They are weak in spirit and rarely can show a masculine character. They are capricious and hysterical, morbid and lazy. But they are very faithful and very loyal.
How to keep him?
If your partner has the features of Mamenka's son - do not try to be his mother at all. He needs a strong woman, ready to make decisions and be an active party in everything - including sex. Look for the golden mean!
Esthete
He loves external beauty and is looking for it in everything. He will never come close to a woman who does not have a decent manicure or sloppy hair. They are so unreliable in themselves, so afraid of misses that they almost avoid having sex with their beloved wife. They gradually begin to feed her with erotic promises. To get rid of sexual tension, he chooses unfamiliar women, indifferent to him. If you can not satisfy him - complexes of inferiority and guilt will not give him rest. He will rush and suffer, until you can not somehow "razrulit" the situation.
How to keep him?
If you are an actress or model, and Esthete is your photographer, then this union may well be long and happy. If you want to have a much deeper, so to speak, close relationship - help your husband cope with the inferiority complex. Be very kind and considerate: mockery and irony can kill him both in a figurative and literal sense. Let him feel on top. As soon as he feels strong and determined, everything will be all right.
Hercules
This is the standard of strength and masculinity. Such a man knows his own worth and really has something to value. He is able to combine strength and tenderness, but he lacks refinement. He easily leads a woman to the top of pleasure, but cares only about orgasm, forgetting the proximity of souls and understanding each other. He always understands if a woman aspires to make a career - her strength and success do not frighten or irritate Hercules.
How to keep him?
Do not try to keep this person rebuked. At the subconscious level, he will move away from you, but will not give himself away. Be calm and meek, but do not forget about yourself. You should be interesting to such a man, should be strong enough spirit. Always remember this.
Orpheus
For him, you are not just a sexual object, but also a person. He can give you and your soul food for growth and development. He is a very purposeful person. For him, love is freedom. But do not worry - the man-Orpheus is very true in nature. Sex with him - bright and deep with a high degree of ingenuity. You can not be afraid to express your fantasies or wishes. Do it safely - the result is worth it.
How to keep him?
Become his muse and you will all return a hundredfold. You can discuss with him any problems that he will listen with care and understanding. Do not worry about infidelity, he will not seek adventure on the side while he is with you.
The main conclusion
Do not try to make a strict assessment of their men and their sexual needs and opportunities. In their pure form, these types exist extremely rarely. Do not waste your life in search of your Orpheus. And know: neither Lords nor Narcissus are born - these types are formed under the influence of various factors. But in the hands of a smart woman the opportunity to change her partner, make her a soft and sensual lover.